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主题:【每日互动话题】当更适合的伴侣出现,你会如何选择?(第418期)

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当更适合的伴侣出现,你会何如选择……
How will you choose when you meet a person who is more suitable to you?

    拥有一段稳定的伴侣关系,却又发现了更适合自己的,这是我们的两性关系经常要面临的一个挑战。这其中,最困难的是更适合的伴侣出现之后——对更好的一款汽车或一栋大房子,我们基本上总是因为选择“更好的”而兴奋和满足;而两性关系中,对于“更好的”,选择总是更复杂,结果也总是更复杂。
    案例:
33岁的女记者马丽,陷入一场情感困局——在还算美满的婚姻之外,遇到一个她认为与自己的灵魂更匹配的人。
马丽想起刚入行时,一位老记者说,女记者关系容易破裂,因为天天采访成功人士,都比自己的老公优秀,自己的老公很难再保持吸引力。马丽后来了解到,这位前辈离婚两次,原因都是出现了“更适合”自己的伴侣。马丽很困扰:如果遇见了更好的,为什么又分开呢?


   “自由选择”是当代的金科玉律,适用于挑选学校、恋人、新鞋子甚至这世上的一切东西。但是太多的选择非但没能给我们自由,反成一种禁锢。为何多即是少?在更多选择面前,你会如何决策?

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一流的我 决不接受二流的挑战……
楼主 Date: 2008-09-18 09:30:24
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当更适合的伴侣出现,你会何如选择……
How will you choose when you meet a person who is more suitable to you?


There are many choices we have to make through our life, different decision brings different result, perhaps it means success or failure, Choice is a headachy thing, a lot of people hate to choose, they want to gain but fear to lose, there is an old saying: Look before you leap, yes, that's right, sometimes choice isn't a simple action, it bears more responsibility, more expectation, more pursuit.

Choosing itself is a hard thing, if we oblige to put it in the human relationship, I think it's a little bitter, but the life or even the society is like this, we make decisions all the time, then we become accustomed, someone said, the essential relationship among people is interest, we are greedy and often aren't contented with what we own, better life is everyone's goal, a lot of people are working for it, when get what we want, we are unsatisfied again, in this process we gain ,we lose, no ending., human being is an odd colony.

And the present society is full of lure, there are really more outstanding persons, we may lose ourselves, we often image if i am with him, the life will be much more colorful, according to a survey, the person who's liable to change minds is not stable, they're always finding fresh, however, the ending is he tired, he doesn't want to change anymore, and the persons who ever loved him have gone away, leaving regretting.Since the results we can predict, why do many people want to try, we always demand our partner to be honest, it's funny, what about yourself, do any self-reflection? So, let's no more sway, cherish the one who are with you, believe he/she is your right man.

I meet many men who are more excellent than my BF, I always look them with admiration, I know that's  not belong to me, I have own one, that's enough, and i never complain my bf, i know he is trying, he is best in my eyes, me too. The god is fair, everyone feel contented, the world is peaceful, A CONTENTED MIND IS A PERPETUAL FEAST.

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Date: 2008-09-18 09:31:41
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