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主题:【每日互动话题】当更适合的伴侣出现,你会如何选择?(第418期)

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当更适合的伴侣出现,你会何如选择……
How will you choose when you meet a person who is more suitable to you?

    拥有一段稳定的伴侣关系,却又发现了更适合自己的,这是我们的两性关系经常要面临的一个挑战。这其中,最困难的是更适合的伴侣出现之后——对更好的一款汽车或一栋大房子,我们基本上总是因为选择“更好的”而兴奋和满足;而两性关系中,对于“更好的”,选择总是更复杂,结果也总是更复杂。
    案例:
33岁的女记者马丽,陷入一场情感困局——在还算美满的婚姻之外,遇到一个她认为与自己的灵魂更匹配的人。
马丽想起刚入行时,一位老记者说,女记者关系容易破裂,因为天天采访成功人士,都比自己的老公优秀,自己的老公很难再保持吸引力。马丽后来了解到,这位前辈离婚两次,原因都是出现了“更适合”自己的伴侣。马丽很困扰:如果遇见了更好的,为什么又分开呢?


   “自由选择”是当代的金科玉律,适用于挑选学校、恋人、新鞋子甚至这世上的一切东西。但是太多的选择非但没能给我们自由,反成一种禁锢。为何多即是少?在更多选择面前,你会如何决策?

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一流的我 决不接受二流的挑战……
楼主 Date: 2008-09-18 09:30:24
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当更适合的伴侣出现,你会何如选择……



How will you choose when you meet a person who is more suitable to you?

There are many choices we have to make through our life, different decision brings different result, perhaps it means success or failure, Choice is a headachy thing, a lot of people hate to choose, they want to gain but fear to lose, there is an old saying: Look before you leap, yes, that's right, sometimes choice isn't a simple action, it bears more responsibility, more expectation, more pursuit .

WhenI meet a person who seems more suitable to me,I will choose the one I love the most,and he who loves me the most too.

once I choose,I will never change my choice.

wen jun(文俊) and I were together with each other for nearly two years. and we love each other, without a doubt, thouth we qurrelled for times,but soon we got to become reconciled as before.

the other day,some one  made  an introduction for me when l was not awared.,and the other side is a teacher.

I met him with surprise and ignorance. without a word,so did he. slight smile on his face and  he  blushed,so did I.

while he is a  handsome,and  dainty  gentleman,if I have not got bf,I will choose him certainly, but I have one, though he is more suitable to me , I will not choose him either.

for I love my bf,and I could not betray him.

once I choose him, and he is my mr right,my exclusive Mr right.I know it is too hard to find a person who loves me very much,and he who is my best-loved. so I did not choose the one who is more suitable to me,but the one who loves me best.

the one who is more suitable to me,maybe  he is not  really suitable,who knows. maybe he is not so good as the one before.

Rafael Ortiz had said this before: Love is not finding someone to live with;It's finding someone you can't live without. and I think Wen jun is this some one.
I only want to love someone with all my heart and all my mind...

To love someone and be loved back, it's everything.


当更适合的伴侣出现,你会何如选择……


在我们的生活中有很多的选择,不同的选择会导致不同的结果,就像赌注,有成功和失败。选择往往是一件令人头痛的事,很多人都讨厌选择。他们都想得到但是却害怕失去,古人云:三思而后行,是啊,说得对极了。有时选择不仅仅是一个简单的行为,而是要在承受着更多的责任,期待和追求。
当更适合的伴侣出现,我的选择是我最爱和最爱我的他。
一旦我决定了,我就不会随意改变我的决定。
我和文俊在一起已经差不多两年了,毫无疑问,我们彼此相爱。虽然有时也会有小吵小闹,但是没多久我们很快会和好如初。
前些天,有一个人在我不知情的情况下给我作了介绍。对方是个老师。
我也在不知情情况下看到了他,我和他都没有说一句话,他只是面带微笑,脸也红了,我的脸也红了。
虽然他也长得很英俊,是个很讲究的男人,如果我没有男朋友,我当然会选他,但是我已经有了,虽然他可能会更加适合我,我同样不会选他。
因为我非常爱我的男朋友,而我也不想背叛他。
一旦我爱上他,选择了他,他就是我生命中的白马王子, 我唯一的白马王子。我知道要找一个我爱的人并且爱我的人是很难的,因此我不能放弃他,而去选择一个看似更加适合我的男人。
更适合我的伴侣,可能也不是真的适合我,谁知道呢??可能他还不如我的男朋友呢。
欧提兹曾说过,爱情不是找个人一块生活,而是找那个生活中离不开的人. 我想文俊就是他说的那个人了吧。
我只是想全心合意的去爱一个人
爱一个人同时也被爱,这就足够了。



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最后由 文俊521 于 2008-09-19 10:07:00编辑
Date: 2008-09-18 09:32:13
I think I will not change my mind
Date: 2008-09-18 09:32:46
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