to lihy163: 很正常啊,just human nature to feel this way. 看见了美好的事物,却只能作为旁观者欣赏,而无缘拥有.--Take it easy, 你也会有让别人苦恼的那一天的-- 呵呵,just kidding。--听过这首歌吧:Flying Without Wings. "Everybody is looking for that something." 有些人找到得早些,有些会迟些,如此而已.说不定,God会save the best for last 呢.祝你幸福呀.