the art of giving up There is something that we deem to lose in the world. So in this way, everyone of us should have the courage to accept this and master the art of giving up. From the beginning of life, we always are losing something in our life traveling. When we grow little by little, we should learn to control ourselves, and go to school. For this, we should give up some privileges, such as watching TV as we want. We should learn to dress ourselves even go to school alone. In one word, we learn to become more independent and start to take responsibility instead of just enjoying. When we grow up, we find our parents aren’t young as before, they become older and older, they begin to ask our opinion about the family, etc. Then we go to work and support a family. Our parents aren’t strong as before, one day health will leave them, even their life. We must accept that. Besides, we still suffer a lot loss. Such as money, friendship, love, etc. Once upon a time, maybe you were very good friends, but when he went to another city or something else, the contacts between you two became less and less, even lost his message. Although you would felt very pity, but praying for him is enough things you can do for him. Maybe you two were lovers, but one day you felt so different and tough to keep this relationship. Then you broke up and chose another one. He or you would felt so sad to face this, because he or you were still in love with the other, but you need to accept this. Many things aren’t in the master of ourselves, we should accept what we can’t change. Giving up is good for two of you, since being together is unendurable.
In the world, we are so lonely, and face the process of losing things, also getting new things. So we should have the courage to give up. Only through this, we can have a new life, get new things, and enjoy the wonderful travel of our life. |