主题：【每日互动话题】捐款，是爱心自觉，还是道德要挟？（第329期）

I just came back from PEK. I feel a little tired, but I still insist in writing article in this part of bbs.I like this column very much.

We all felt astonished and sad at this terrible earthquake. However, to my excited is that too many people, from all social sectors, have contributed their warm-hearts to disaster areas. But we also see that their are two views emerge into internet. Some people argue that there is no balance of warm-hearted, it's a social responsibily. Every people should be practical and realistic,don't take on more than you can cope with. I agree this viewpoint. Yet there has another view maintian that whip-round is a shame of morality. Some internet users begen to speculate people's income through their contributions. Therefore, some people began to "threaten" or "exert great pressure" to those groups who earn high salary to contribute considerable money. We shouldn't balance warm-heart by contributions. The warm-heart will be at a discount if we just contribute for reducing or avoiding social pressure or public opinion.

All we hear is words, but there is no action. I saw too many internet user apple to contribute money in QQ group. However, how many people do it really? What is more, some people will say a high number when they was asked how much did they contribute which just for saving his face. Don’t forget that contributing is a responsibility and kindness towards suffering compatriots rather than glory or reputation. So if you are still thinking how much should contribute in public space, I suggest you’d better give up the opinion.

Today, one of my friend told me that she intended to adopt an orphan which surprised me. I really admire her courage and kindness. Perhaps those people who contribute too much or just say hollow words have no courage to adopt an orphan. It’s a great difference between one-time investment and investment for life. Therefore, please bring your warm heart but face.
最后由 crystalblue1900 于 2008-05-15 15:58:52编辑

i am too slow.

SOFA
HAHA

why do you  rob so quickly?

Observe standpoint:heart have no more or less
Donation,is self-knowledge heart,not moral coerce;sponsor collection is heart vocative,noe moral blackmail.No matter what the social and every citizen conscience or social responsibility order about.Donation is a form to express love.Use a red heart boost disaster area.It is a love heart action,is all over china for wholehearted.
Collection is landsman affcetion is love country attection is morally is responsibility to embodiment of salvage disaster.
最后由 shuiguo4119 于 2008-05-15 11:15:45编辑

同意,爱心没有大小之分,
不管是什么样的表达
都是一份祝福的心愿
希望我们平安的人给那些需要帮助的人一点温暖
希望我们可以开心生活的人给那些需要帮助的人一点祝福
希望我们有幸福家园的人为那些需要帮助的人一点力量
希望....
希望我们的祝福能帮助灾区的人们度过难关
希望...
希望中国大地繁华似锦
希望....
我们这个大家庭春暖花开
希望...............

Whip-round, launching several days ago,have been being one of  the most impotant ways to help the people suffering earthquake by those who could not arrive the scene for give a hand.i saw some people at net criticising those popular star who did not contribute enough money fitting their status.i have some view to say.

In my opinion,the acount of whip-round is not the main point,we should focus on the warm-hearted, the acount counld not be consider as how large your resposibility is,.if you have ability to give a help to victims with whatever methods,i think, you must be respected by all the people.futher more, the acount of money represent the power you can contribute, if you are  common,please send your bless,it is enough, if you are rich, please patronize your money which could be beared.

Sometimes, i can not help making my eyes water by the scene happened in disaster area,i bless all the victims!
最后由 Aaron1984 于 2008-05-15 14:28:14编辑

我们会在一起

万众一心
众志成城

反面观点:捐款是道德要挟

但是，我们也听到或看到，网友中有人对赈灾捐款金额多少的争议，甚至以捐款的多少来“倒推”其收入的大小。捐款金额有
多少之别，但爱心无“大小”之分。我们不能简单地以捐款的多少来评判爱心的大小，不同的收入群体，量力而行自发捐款
，那怕是一分钱的捐款，也是一份爱心。我们不能从舆论上“要挟”或“施压”高收入群体必须捐出多少钱，也不宜用金钱天
平来秤爱心。如果是迫于某些压力而捐款，其爱心就会折扣。
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深切赞同这个观点, 确实 现在社会各界人士都在捐助, 可是当暴露多少时, 又有流言而起!
说实在的, 别人已经贡献了一份爱心,表达了自己能力范围内的心意, 大家那样的舆论确实不妥, 这样会给捐助人造成心理压力,使得本来表达心意的行为, 反到成为了自己的压力!
总觉得， 大家有时候 太过于关注这种不必要的....舆论了!!!
这个现象, ............... .......

一方有难，八方支援，支援多少，量力而为！  

让我们在这里祈祷灾区人民早日度过难关吧！

现在有这种现象,领导会强制下面的员工捐赠最少上百的现金，这个也是有违个人意愿的，因为员工自身的工资才几百，这个能说明他们是“道德要挟”吗？？
Now this phenomenon, leading to below the compulsory donation at least 100 employees in cash, this is also contrary to the will of individuals, because the wages of employees before hundreds of their own, this describes them as "moral blackmail"?
最后由 灵冰傲雪 于 2008-05-15 10:08:55编辑

I think most of people who donate are well-meant,they really fell pity for the suffering of the earthquake area.The pictures of death,the orphans and so on moved me to tears,at that moment,I want to try my best to help them.Most my schoolmates have the same idea with me,they donate beacuse of their kindess.
    Maybe,there are some rich people or enterprises are donated under the moral pressure.but it's necessary for people who are lack of goodness.they have got more things from the society,now it's time for them to pay more.
   Charity is not the patent of the rich,everyone no matter rich and poor should give some assistance.Only in this way can our country overcome the disaster!

爱心无“大小”之分
为什么有些人总爱在这些灾难发生的时候却去着重关心别的事情呢？  爱心最重要。如果是这些人身上发生了某种不幸，估计他们也不想在自己接受捐赠的时候还看到捐赠人犹豫不决的表情的吧。将心比心。 灾难当头，关心这些无聊的事情有用么？！