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主题:【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛?(第330期)

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SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛?

SOLO一族是成年男女组成的一种新型的单身集团,既不结婚,也不同居,而是与一名固定的、忠诚的异性保持密切的关系。同时依然生活在各自“小家庭”内的单身男子和女子。他们跟人数众多的同居者不同,他们就是不愿跟心上人组成一对,生活在同一个屋檐下。他们是放单的恋人,在英国被称为“分居共过”,在法国被称为“半同居”,还有一个更形象化的字眼,叫SOLO(独唱,独奏)。称之为时尚,还大言不谗地说这叫小别胜新婚,两个人在一起就要互相给对方足够的自由。这种方式真的是明智之举吗?为什么几乎是年轻人在喊这样的口号呢?还是他们对婚姻根本就没有足够的理解,还是把双方互相推向外界接受新的诱惑呢?
SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛?你是否可以接受如此的生活?

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最后由 fenglingcao 于 2008-05-16 09:51:45编辑
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楼主 Date: 2008-05-16 09:32:33
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em07.gif what is that?
it's the first time i've heard the word...
though the society today is running so rapidly and so specially that i nearly cannot keep pace with it.
many new style of lifes occur.
my opinion on love is always traditional and perfect,which i think love should be a warm family,two mutual trust,and lasting happy with children...em12.gif em12.gif em12.gif
最后由 粽子X 于 2008-05-16 09:46:02编辑
沙发 Date: 2008-05-16 09:33:04
是真爱还是背叛?
板凳 Date: 2008-05-16 09:33:16
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Solo: true love or sellout?
So-called solo is not true love and sellout but is acting the goat. Although I am generation Y, I thanks my mother for giving my life in the early 80s. I really can't understand the young people who were borned after 1985. There's no concetion of responsibility in their dictionary. These youth just concerned how to consume and enjoy. It is the most important thing to them that worship money and freedom. My brother,a handsome boy, made friend with a rich girl whose family had a lot of money. He told his mother that not to expend too much on wedding ceremony because he had no idea of how many times he would marry. Another friend of mine said he had a lover who was just a junior student in college. If one of them made a boy/girlfriend, the other will leave the lover and to find a new firend to become a new lover. I felt sad and angry when I heard this style of emotion. It's the same as solo on some degree.
Talk about marriage, it's fully embody the responsibility of a family. People establish a new family for taking on responsibility and love of life. A family include tolerance, love, understanding, mutual help, obligation, etc. We should take care of parents, love our half, teach our children. If youth just conceraned about freedom, perhaps a baby didn't know who's his real dad. I can't imagine how terrible in the furture life.
Everybody need freedom, but as far as I’m concerned, responsibility is more important than freedom. Just to say Sichuan earthquake, if no people have responsibility, have no warm heart, the disaster area will in a mass and the victime will feel helpless. A person need responsibility, so do companies, and so does a  country.
I can't understand so-called solo, and I object it intensely. If this generation didn't get good derection and education of life, the moral will from bad to worse.
最后由 crystalblue1900 于 2008-05-16 19:15:18编辑
4 Date: 2008-05-16 09:33:40
it is hard to understand!em03.gif
5 Date: 2008-05-16 09:35:51
em08.gif   好神奇
真爱也好背叛也罢,都不重要,重要的是他们喜欢这感觉。独自一人的恋情有什么不好,给自己更大的空间。SOLO不是内心空虚也不是天生喜欢叛逆,他们只是厌倦了一贯的爱情模式,想找新鲜刺激的恋爱方法,其实有时每个人都在内心深处想找一个异性的朋友,与他们保持着似是而非的关系,这种不叫做出轨也不叫做背叛,可以叫它“不能说的秘密”。生活赋予我门太多的压力,也许这是个缓解压力最好的方法!

You will  fell in excellent spirits when you are SOLO.No one likes their lovers forget them.Although they were forgotten.So they tried to find a person who could understand them .


最后由 talent802 于 2008-05-16 09:53:19编辑

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6 Date: 2008-05-16 09:36:55
看来我又土了呀
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7 Date: 2008-05-16 09:39:33
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SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛?
         I don't understand and surprise to the solo.em07.gif
         Yes,it may keep fresh and excited when you don't live together with your heartweet or don't meet your lover for a long time.However,what can you get after enthusiasm?I think true love should share every emotion,including happy and sorrow,exciting and boredom,fresh and weariness.
         True love should experience the traditional virtues.Lovers should company each other forever no matter how difficulties they met.It is not true love if you just want to share happy,fresh,exciting and beautiful things with your heartsweet.I can't accept and understand the life of SOLO.They intend to separate with her or his love just expect to get exciting and fresh.They will not have the sons and daughters beacuse they may think it will be more easy and comfortable without foster their children.Then the population in the world will be less and less.I doubt that what will be the life if the young change the traditional life.Maybe the world will be ruined and disappear.

        Therefore,I advocate the traditional love and virtues.That is:Let's share happiness and woe with our lover instead of avoiding and escaping the obligation and burden.   
最后由 renxiaoyao 于 2008-05-16 11:09:10编辑
8 Date: 2008-05-16 09:41:47
THEY HAVE NO TRUE UNDERSTANDING TO MARRIAGE
最后由 LITTLEWING 于 2008-05-16 09:43:47编辑
9 Date: 2008-05-16 09:43:17
haha, maybe adapt myself to this love .
But i am a trational man.
10 Date: 2008-05-16 09:44:02
Everyone has their life.em09.gif
11 Date: 2008-05-16 09:44:18
我接受不了。
12 Date: 2008-05-16 09:53:45
I never heard of it before.  It is first time.  em03.gif
13 Date: 2008-05-16 09:56:32
em10.gif ........................
14 Date: 2008-05-16 09:59:00
I believe that if one falls in love with someone else, everyone is willing to stay with the lover. if the solo does like this. I am suprised at the love between them, maybe the relationship is just a kind of need, not the real love.em14.gif
15 Date: 2008-05-16 10:01:34


引用phong_li于2008-05-16 10:01发表的文章:
I believe that if one falls in love with someone else, everyone is willing to stay with the lover. if the solo does like this. I am suprised at the love between them, maybe the relationship is just a kind of need, not the real love.em14.gif

em02.gif em02.gif I agree with you
最后由 fenglingcao 于 2008-05-16 10:12:37编辑
16 Date: 2008-05-16 10:05:46
I think it's difficult to say
but i think everyone has their ideas .......
but i think it's good for thier love ,
if they want to live together ,it's can do .....
17 Date: 2008-05-16 10:07:01

18 Date: 2008-05-16 10:08:39
学会忠诚em06.gif em06.gif em05.gif
19 Date: 2008-05-16 10:23:01
I can not accept it.
20 Date: 2008-05-16 10:23:40
SOLOem06.gif
21 Date: 2008-05-16 10:34:28
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