主题：【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？（第330期）

To me ,I can't endure to take apart with each other.
Because if  I love him with my heart , I will want to take care of him ,anytime.

though I had never heard this new words,I have tasted this life .
in my opinion, I think it's a need in each other
when i first enter the colleage i met her at unusual afternoon,day aftre day ,I took a lots of time,and spent much money in loving. ultimately i felt i am failer ,the reason why i think i am a failer,because i merely got her body,howere not her heart.

the first time to know this word, I can't understand these SOLOs.
maybe I'm too traditional, I really want to know what they've got from this original life.

To be or not to be   that is a question

juet a freedom

I agree with it...solo, it just a very simple thing,,, like we done in senior  or  high school,,,so simplicity, i like this kind of feeling ,,,If they live together...they may have lots of things to quarrel...
最后由 sunny星 于 2008-05-17 16:49:03编辑

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看来我又落后了。/不过这样有点意思

   I can't accept the new relationship.
    I think it may result in the indifference between persons. If they live far from each other and have a fragile connection,they may easily break up.
   If the couple love each other ,they should live with each other and cultivate a lasting and firm relationship. It's marriage that give them a sense of responsibility.If they get married,they can take care of their parents, have a child, understand each other better.Only do you have a firm relationship can you feel warm and secure.
    It's marriage that makes you know there's someone who support you and help you all the time.In a word,  "Marriage is not the end of love,the cause of love is eternity."

SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？
真正重要的是彼此兩人都喜歡這種SOLO的感覺!只要雙方認同這種觀點，才會幸福，被稱為真愛!
我個人不喜歡這種SOLO方式的戀愛，我認為，愛一個人，就希望和對方相互相依。並告之天下!
所以，找與自己價值觀一致的對象，才是幸福的關鍵!

I don't think I can follow this living style.

I   can't   support     this    attitude   

SOLO这个词今天我是第一次听到，好像有点落伍咯。不过我也还年轻啊！我想每个人的心中都会对未来有着美好的的憧憬，我也一样。依我个人而言，我不能接受这样的生活。首先，我冒昧的说一句：这样的人生观并不是真正的生活，也不会得到所谓的爱情，或者说他们根本就害怕去谈恋爱（眼不见心不烦），他们觉得两个人在一起了会不自由（不在一起生活真的就自由了么———至少心理上是不自由的）；或是互相猜疑（经常有一段时间见不到面，彼此自然会猜疑对方是否已不再相爱了）时间长了不管是男方还是女方都会受不了这种等待……
SOLO一族,谈不上是真爱还是背叛。我觉得是现代人对爱情的一种逃避。真爱的结果就是两人互相拥有对方。不然，什么都是空的。
结婚也不是爱情的坟墓，只要相互理解，相互体谅对方，同样也能得到属于自己的自由。
以上是个人观点仅作参考！！！

don't have someone on side

I think people will put their  whole heart  onto their lovers if they turely fall in love.

I thought i  could  understand it '
though  i think my  mind is very traditional ,
but every one have  two side ,
one  is  his nature ,the other is the society  nature ,
we leave in  the real world ,
we have dream ,but we can't break this rule ,
i  understand ,but i  don't agree  to  practise it .