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主题：【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？（第330期）

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SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？

SOLO一族是成年男女组成的一种新型的单身集团，既不结婚，也不同居，而是与一名固定的、忠诚的异性保持密切的关系。同时依然生活在各自“小家庭”内的单身男子和女子。他们跟人数众多的同居者不同，他们就是不愿跟心上人组成一对，生活在同一个屋檐下。他们是放单的恋人，在英国被称为“分居共过”，在法国被称为“半同居”，还有一个更形象化的字眼，叫SOLO（独唱，独奏）。称之为时尚，还大言不谗地说这叫小别胜新婚，两个人在一起就要互相给对方足够的自由。这种方式真的是明智之举吗？为什么几乎是年轻人在喊这样的口号呢？还是他们对婚姻根本就没有足够的理解，还是把双方互相推向外界接受新的诱惑呢？
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楼主 Date: 2008-05-16 09:32:33

Y洋溢Y

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may be i am looking forward to it , just a flash thought ...

82 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:20:50

东的小玲子

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I am a traditional woman, I can not accept it.
When I fall in love with my boyfriend and he love me too, we decide to married and now we want to have a baba. so i have a happy life !

83 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:22:10

Johnjsau

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No one likes their lovers forget them.

84 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:22:14

cute_ariel

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偶不稀饭solo 有点不负责的感觉……

85 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:38:23

cute_ariel

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不过支持楼主还是要照旧的嘛……

86 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:38:46

girlghost

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Maybe they don't love each other enough.

87 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:39:32

kiki_wong

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Everything has two sides. We can not say it’s good or bad arbitrarily. Also, everyone has his or her thought.
For most of the people, I think SOLO is a new thing to them, which cannot accept by them because of our tradition. In my opinion, I can understand their feelings. I don’t think SOLO means betray. Different people have different life styles, which we can’t change them easily. Love not just a word to say, but also a feeling between two people to comprehend. I think SOLO is just a simple love, which you love him or her you can understand him or her and give him or her more space, keep the love often be fresh, full of exciting. I don’t think live together or get marry is the only way to establish your love. There are so many people cohabit and separate quickly. And divorce is a word we familiar with today. So SOLO may be another choice for people.

88 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:48:53

lpw_11

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it's not true love.i really do not agree with that way

89 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:51:15

蔚蓝溪

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You will fell in excellent spirits when you are SOLO.No one likes their lovers forget them.Although they were forgotten.So they tried to find a person who could understand them .

90 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:52:14

罗飞

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ACTUALLY SPEAKING, MY LIFE STYLE CAN BE CALLED SOLO. I IS A LITTLE DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS THE FEELING, FRESHING, EXCITING AND FREELY. BUT WHEN YOU REVIEW YOUR PAST LIFE, YOU WILL FIND HOW EMPTINESS, YOU GOT NOTHING FROM IT.
COMPARE WITH OTHERS, YOU MAY EXPERIENCE A LOT, BUT YOU OBTAIN A LITTLE.
MY CONCLUSION IS: SOLO IS NOT TRUE LOVE, IT CAN'T LASTS FOR A LONG TIME. IT CAN BE CALLED TWO LONELINESS HEART CRASH, NO LOVE BUT COMFORT EACH OTHER.

91 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:54:39

swordjoe

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I don't agree with the solo style of the life and can't accept it.

92 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 14:55:58

GCcat

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I like the Solo. If I would younger 5 years, I will selected this kide of life!

93 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:03:39

angle001

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solo一族
。。。
社会发展的需要吧

94 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:05:31

friendshipling

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I thinking everyone have their lite....

95 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:18:19

浪人

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in my opinion, that's not adopt to me for marriage. i have to say that give earch other some room is a right way to make marriage better ,vere sweeter.but you konw,this kind of thing can not across the the line whom promised .

96 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:21:54

黑暗中

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the world is changing so fast~

97 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:23:36

ice1219

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I can't accept it. Everybody always hope to have their own life. We can reach it by another way.
I think that is not fit for chinese.

98 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:37:14

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I don't ucderstand

99 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:43:27

288934

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what is solo's life

100 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:49:58

mqk0913

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I THINK IT IS ANOTHER WAY OF OUR LIFE.EVEN I WANT TO GET THIS LIFE....

101 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 15:51:51