主题：【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？（第330期）

solo, neither true love nor betray, in my opinion, it is somebody's selfish.
in fact, wedding is national system, it can engage somebody to love his or her lover.
and i hope in our country, all of us should be marriage and do must have a tataly family.
由于我的英语表达能力有限,我怕自己的语法有错误,所以翻译一下:
solo对我来说,即不是真爱也不是背叛,其实是自私的表现.
事实在,婚姻是国家制度,它可以约束某人去爱他/她的爱人,而不至于滥爱．（呵呵……）
然而，我希望在我国家，我们都有一个好婚姻，并且有一个完整的家庭。
最后由 Fionay 于 2008-05-16 16:07:16编辑

我不喜欢挖~~~~~~~~~

I kind of support the so called SOLO type.

In Europe, the culture is quiet different from that of China. Women have lots of rights in terms of work and social life.  In some way, men do women's job, women do men's job and what's worse, they were raised in family where there's not deep relation between their parents, nor between their parents and them.

They DO believe true love but they never set a limit of the duration. They love they hate they have fun but at least in a limited time area, they devote all they could to sustain their love relationship with one person.

In a way, Solo for them is much better than get married and then divorce, it's also an attitude of responsibility

thats just for the people who was born after 1990.
new style of life for new people.
we cannot understand.

While,I want to give opinions in different directions.
Basicly, I'm a traditional man who grow up in traditional education system, though I'm a person who was born after 1980s. So, in my opinion, I dislike the living style which was mentioned upstairs. I think marriage or family is a extremely large problem to a single one, and slao a social problem which should be treated seriously. For the reason of demands of social stability, this living mode should be criticized.
In the other hand, today, the world has becomed a aggregation of contradiction. More new idea and behaviors are encouraged to performance to show personality. Some new living style, like BOBO, Dingke, and  SOHO has been accepted by different people. It's a way for new people o live a new completely different life, so, it's a personal matter indeed, which has no business with others. So, as a teamer of the world, we have the right to live by ourselves, also should protect the right for others to do what they like. Because of it, we should consider it as a ordinary matter and take it easy.

I wrote a bunch of paragraphs,but with a wrong operation ,everything was gone. Oh, DAMN IT! I have to go, I am so busy!

a new style of life. If I'm a bechlor, I think maybe I'll try it, but I have married, I won't try this kind of life. I must responsible for my couple.

I can understand the SOLO's mood.Everyone has their own way of life.I can't accept the way of life but I can accept other person have the way of life. 貌似最后一句有点语病，请高手们帮忙纠正下。
最后由 小可怜的梦想 于 2008-05-16 16:31:25编辑

every one has his right to choose how to treat relationshio,but i am the tradition one .
i admit one soulmate in one life ,no more flirting or vagueness in relationship

I don't want to  say any more!

I don't think SOLO is a style of love,in fact,I think it is cowardly to your true lover or the betray to your partner.anyway,it is very unmorality.in my opinion ,if you fall in love with someone,you will not stand with this long distance relationship,or you both are just need,not the love.

I can undersand!
I think this life style can meet most youngerst probaly as the youngerst could not belive marriage and love!
also they could worry about themselves' life !
I accept this life style but i can not make it true as i had lost this chance!

I can't understand and never accept this style of SOLO's living.
I'm a traditional girl, though i want to be a new life style,
I don't want to separate with my lover. I believe there is true love all
over the world. In view of SOHO, they only want to feel fresh.

it is the first time for me to know this word. in my opinion, love is selfish. if we really love a person, we cannot accept that he have a close relation with another girl. at least for me,i can not accept this kind of things.

Solo, 听上去不错的哦