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主题：【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？（第330期）

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SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？

SOLO一族是成年男女组成的一种新型的单身集团，既不结婚，也不同居，而是与一名固定的、忠诚的异性保持密切的关系。同时依然生活在各自“小家庭”内的单身男子和女子。他们跟人数众多的同居者不同，他们就是不愿跟心上人组成一对，生活在同一个屋檐下。他们是放单的恋人，在英国被称为“分居共过”，在法国被称为“半同居”，还有一个更形象化的字眼，叫SOLO（独唱，独奏）。称之为时尚，还大言不谗地说这叫小别胜新婚，两个人在一起就要互相给对方足够的自由。这种方式真的是明智之举吗？为什么几乎是年轻人在喊这样的口号呢？还是他们对婚姻根本就没有足够的理解，还是把双方互相推向外界接受新的诱惑呢？
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楼主 Date: 2008-05-16 09:32:33

阿猫单游

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不过如果我真的爱上一个人的话估计就会想方设法把他绑在身边了
哪容得了他去“自由”
哈哈

122 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 18:14:10

helena110

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怎末说呢？觉得婚前可以接受这种观点。我觉得结婚是爱情的保证，这样才能有个幸福的家。可能国外的人真的很开放。But I hope that it won't become popular in China!

123 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 18:43:48

leo520

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it's the first time i've heard the word...

124 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 18:46:46

余秋张

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It's the first time I hear about that word ,solo.It's inconceivable. Maybe they think this life style is fashionable.But I do not think so.If them love each other enough,they may want to be together forever.
Only they live together can they take care of each other.They can be feel good when they live in a house.As you know ,love is responsbility that you should consider each other and support each other to some extend.
Despite marriage is a formal thing ,it make us together .It means that we will be in love for a life time.
In a word ,I do not understand that so-callde solo.

125 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 18:57:26

LISA猫

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,to be a solo??
No, i would like to live with my lover..

126 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:11:20

thory

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这种方式应该建立在信任的基础上

127 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:23:48

Jo_Ping

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It's hard to understand.

128 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:29:08

fairylin

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it is so difficult for me accept this way of life

129 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:30:51

fairylin

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it is not good for marriage

130 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:31:19

19940102

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是真爱还是背叛？

131 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 19:52:08

caiyecaoral

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i think it is ok
everyone has the right to choose his own life style,and it will not hurt no one.
fell in love with someone is different with live together
we need some self space

132 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:17:15

Ｒay

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it is too difficult

133 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:22:22

shuanger820

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不能说的秘密

134 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:28:35

我爱怡口莲

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这个世道啊，我果然落后啦~

135 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:44:30

Stellalin7

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I really astonished when I heard this news.
I know the world is becoming more and more open. But I still cannot accept it .It ruins the beauty of true love in my eyes. Personally, I think true love is purer than the snow on the top of the high mounts.
If you truly love someone, I think you will be mad when you find that your boyfriends or girlfriends straddled the fence and always told lies to gloss over the wrongs that they had done! So, never be the people who offend you.
According to the odds that are for this phenomenon say, they keep this kind of relationship with their boyfriends or girlfriends because of they want to give the other side the freedom .Oh, no! I cannot believe my eyes! Nonsence! They are just demeaning human! I think they should feel ashamed! And I want to stress out being a good gay means you should take responsibility for what your done and never find some excuses to explain away! It’s useless and makes you worse!
Be serious about your emotions and never play it as a trick! Or it will hurt you someday!

136 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:45:02

我爱怡口莲

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偶觉得这个现在的人为了不负责任所找的一中借口！！！

137 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:45:34

billprince

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SOLO，is it love or rebel?

138 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 20:56:58

Love this

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My God.I heard the first time.
I can't accept it.

139 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:18:14

栋文

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I am sorry for being so late !

140 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:24:06

huolongbaozhu

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I think it's a good way to seek true love.
This way,people can get to know each other more freely,and more carefully as well.
And also,one line be there,many other lines will be gone.
That's why so many boys and girls choose to be friends before lovers.
What is love?I don't know exactly.Maybe we need a lifetime to
get the answer.
I do think solo oneday will turn into love,of course on the condition of you are a good man.HOHO

141 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:29:23