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主题：【每日互动话题】SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？（第330期）

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SOLO一族,是真爱还是背叛？

SOLO一族是成年男女组成的一种新型的单身集团，既不结婚，也不同居，而是与一名固定的、忠诚的异性保持密切的关系。同时依然生活在各自“小家庭”内的单身男子和女子。他们跟人数众多的同居者不同，他们就是不愿跟心上人组成一对，生活在同一个屋檐下。他们是放单的恋人，在英国被称为“分居共过”，在法国被称为“半同居”，还有一个更形象化的字眼，叫SOLO（独唱，独奏）。称之为时尚，还大言不谗地说这叫小别胜新婚，两个人在一起就要互相给对方足够的自由。这种方式真的是明智之举吗？为什么几乎是年轻人在喊这样的口号呢？还是他们对婚姻根本就没有足够的理解，还是把双方互相推向外界接受新的诱惑呢？
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楼主 Date: 2008-05-16 09:32:33

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I feel strange

142 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:31:56

蓝山小湖

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what is SOLO

143 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:35:09

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144 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:42:22

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帖主对此回复很满意，所以奖励

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just walk your own road and let others comment behind you
what is life and what is marriage? Probably, everyone has their own interpretations. Traditionally, when a child grows into an adult, he or she shoul marry his or her loved one. And then the new couple will give birth their own children, bring up their children , educate them and pay for their college until their children harvest their own marriages. Then their children retrace the life circle of their parents without little change, dull and boring. This is so-called classical and righteous marriage accepted by most of us.
However, as time passes by, things have changed a lot. Everyone has his own freedom and right to pursue his individual life as long as he does not hurt others in his pursuit of marriage. And there is no need to criticize them and others should not backbite either.We cannot ask everybody to comply with the old marriage rule. It is such a fast changing age and everything is changing including people's views of marriage. Admittedly, I will not give my support to one-night love, for this behaviour is against our moral ethic and causes HIV contagions. The side I am by is that you are eligible to choose your marriage style , such as keeping a distant with your loved one and giving more private space each other,of course getting together every now and then, but you must remember that you mustnot and should not often changing your girlfriends or boyfriends.

145 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:45:10

satanann

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SOLO吧
我个人比较独立，比较喜欢个人有自己的空间，所以比较赞成这种方式
不在一起并不表示不在一起^_^
其实，这个只是个人的习惯，或者是个人的想法而已，没有太多讨论的意义
世界上的哈姆雷特不是很多的么

146 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 21:53:29

shiningsky

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I think that kind of people is fewness. and in my opinion it is acceptable. Sometime i hope i would be a solo. but anyone has his/her freedom to choose his/her love mode.

147 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 22:06:38

野百閤

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I can not accept it, i will think that the people do not like they are life!

148 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 22:40:35

eternalelf

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I have no idea.If it was me,I would like to get married

149 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:01:44

apple@yellow8fat

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SOLO.........
It sounds good.
But I still want to have a family ...
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150 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:02:59

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引用crystalblue1900于2008-05-16 09:33发表的文章:
Solo: true love or sellout?
So-called solo is not true love and sellout but is acting the goat. Although I am generation Y, I thanks my mother for giving my life in the early 80s. I really can't understand the young people who were borned after...

i think you are extreme. i was born on 1987 but i still think it not truth love.so i think their view depend on their character not their aged they born.

151 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:05:53

Get_up_early

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It is strange word to me!
But as a single , I will accept this style of life . SOLO !!! Haw haw!
Some friends around me go this way of life . As a youth, I always act freely to do what I pursue ,so , I will go for drinking beer for entertainment sometimes or just call it some way to release. By then , we will phone some girls together with us getting excited with playing the games and drinking beer . Eventualy……………… haw haw , nothing . Some of them keep some principle , but just for entertainment to do that . As I'm not a goat , I will not do anything demanding. As to some of my friends , they do not . HEI HEI !!!
So , what parents are anxious about is comprehensible .

152 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:10:55

阳光keys

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in this society,everyone has different idea
do want to do,if only they are amused.

153 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:13:29

hailinggoo

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It is the first time for me to hear such a word. I think I can accept the way of life, but I will not live at my own. everyone have the right to choose the way of life they like, and maybe he/she will say NO to other's opinion.In the morden society, love is not as romatic as we known before, sometimes it seems to be a kind of convenience food. Usually, we are afraid to be hurt by others.

154 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:18:47

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这个社会是多元的，我们要的不是遏制，也不是允许，而是期望这些人能生活的幸福就行了

155 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:19:38

Victorg

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既然是真爱为什么要SOLO??? 背叛?这个词语也用的不是很好呀!背叛什么了?背叛传统?还是背叛其他什么呢>? 其实在我看来,LZ所提到的SOLO,说直接点就是一种畸形的,人的思想无处可放时而选者的一种虚拟的世界生活空间.现在生活在这样的时代中,人的精神生活开始四处游荡,游荡在网络的世界中,他们觉得网络的世界没有压力,没有责任,没有纷争. .....
有空再继续讨论这个话题.....

156 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:22:02

无心竹子

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我认为是没责任感！

157 楼 Date: 2008-05-16 23:32:34

SunnyMimicat

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SOLO,这也有.

158 楼 Date: 2008-05-17 00:00:12

雪枫三少

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I believe that everyone has their lives.

159 楼 Date: 2008-05-17 01:00:13

it_leon

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Solo: true love or sellout?
Solo peoples arn't love and arn't sellout yet! why dare I say this? because I'm just a soloer. Now I have a girlfriend lives with me. though we live in a house but in different room. we study together, cook and eat together. I appreciate her freedom and she regards my privacy.
Oh, I must declare, we are all single, we have live together for one year long, our feel good.

160 楼 Date: 2008-05-17 01:07:56

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I can't accept that.

161 楼 Date: 2008-05-17 02:17:11