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说说你的口头禅
Talk about your pet phrase

  “口头禅”最初是佛教禅宗用语,本意指未经心灵证悟就把一些现成的经言和公案挂在嘴边,装作很得道的样子。演变至今,口头禅成了个人习惯用语的代名词,仿佛未经大脑就已脱口而出。对,这就是重点,因为成功逃过了意识警察,才得以看到后面深藏的潜意识。

“你知道吧”是北京人的口头禅,多少透露出皇城根的人不自觉的优越感与好为人师的心理。广东人的“有没有搞错”,带点儿温柔的怀疑精神。台湾人的“不好意思”、“拜托”则折射出内在的某种“不安”与“优雅”交错的矛盾心境……

  而电视网络新时代,口头禅也可以传染,并与时俱进:“靠”、“饿滴神啊”、“汗”、“那是相当”、“给个理由先”……只是不同的人会有不同选择,毕竟口头禅的形成,跟使用者的不同状态有关,同时也影响着其他人对这个人的感觉与认识。例如常说“差不多吧”、“随便”的人大多安于现状,目标不明晰;喜欢用“据说”、“也许”、“算了吧”等词汇开头的人,或狡猾,或信心不足;常说“看我的”、“没问题”的人一般较自信或者自负,相对而言乐于承担责任。


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最后由 fenglingcao 于 2008-07-24 10:31:37编辑
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Talk about your pet phrase

Almost all the people have pet phrases. For me, becuase of using online chatting tool,so I like to say 'My god or Faint!' when we talk something internesting. I'm not real faint actually, it's a showing of exaggerated emotion.When I took 1600 photos in Qingdao, my frient said 'faint'. So it's quite normal pet phrases online.

   When I trained new colleagues or reported working recoder, I liked to say 'it means' which reflected that I often explain my words to have everyone understanding. My colleague told me I had this pet phrase. Sometimes we should restrain our pet phrases. If a person often says 'ah..er..', it means the guy doesn't thinking well when he is talking. It's quite ineffable when you attend an interview. It' means you tell a lie when I ask your some sensitive quesitons, or your reaction is not fast, you mouth can't catch your mind. Then the interviewee would be failed.

I had a friend many years ago, she was my university classmate, I recommended her to enter our enterprise, I found she had a pet phrase ‘do you know’, it’s a little harsh when she communicatied with clients or managers. I told her to overcome the shortcoming, but she failed. She wanted to overcome, but she was from Guangdong, she speaks very fast when she talked to others, and she can’t help saying pet phrase because she just concerned on taking. It’s interesting. Afther communication, she told me she forgot to restrain pet phrase. You know every people felt uncomfortable when a guy said ‘do you know’ in front of every sentense. She left me a great impression of her pet phrase.

This year, there is a new pet phrase ‘why’ prevails among the young people. It’s from a sketch called ‘dream homestead’ which palyed by Cai Ming and Guo Da. The heroine in sketch always said why to everything. Therefore, when we chat or have a joke ,we liked to say why? why ? why?

Young guys who were born after 90s have some new pet phrases which they think it’s very modern and fashion. For example, ‘dear’ is ‘亲爱的’, but they say ‘亲们’ means ‘亲爱的们’. Last time I bought a trousers from Taobao, the shop owner is a beautiful young girl, she said ‘qin, the size of trousers has sold out, if you wanted to buy it, you had to wait for several days…’ I felt confuze at first, what dose ‘qin’ mean? Then I remembered that they called dear is ‘qin’.

Sometimes, we use pet phrase for promoting emotion, but people shouldn’t have pet phrase becoming fashional words.

最后由 crystalblue1900 于 2008-07-24 11:47:26编辑
沙发 Date: 2008-07-24 09:28:31
Talk about your pet phrase.
My pet phrase is "oh ,my god." in chinese(真晕)。
And the most funny pet phrase I have even learned is 那个谁,which came from a old work parnter.
最后由 viktorfisher 于 2008-07-24 09:35:25编辑
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楼主时间Date:2008-07-23 09:30:44

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09:28:31

说说你的口头禅
Talk about your pet phrase
I don't realize that I have any pet phrase, but my girlfriend said I often speak  "My god", maybe she is right, I can't deny it, I even said "my god" to that old Chinese men or women, though they didn't know the mean of "my god", but can understand my countenance and my tone, ho~ho, I can via the "my god" to express my expression anywhere and anytime.
When my girlfriend did an excellent work,  for example, she cooked an unexpected delicious meal for me, I can't help myself to sound "my god, I can't believe my eyes"!  oppositely if she make some mistake, I also say the same word "my god, you surprise me"!
When I  see a beautiful landscape I must say "my god, so exhilarating view"! when I see some peddlery was drove by the hellish urban management officer I say my pet phrase "my god, so pitiful, so rudely"! However, I think my pet phrase is very useful.
最后由 it_leon 于 2008-07-25 00:49:56编辑
4 Date: 2008-07-24 09:31:17
  破译口头禅的莫尔斯电码
  一位知名人类行为学家曾说:“人类有两种表情,一种是脸上所呈现的表情,另一种是说话时传达给对方的信息。”可见,语言是人类的第二表情。而语库中提用率和重复率较高的口头禅,就是心灵的莫尔斯电码,它具有某种心理投射功能,在一定程度上揭示了说话者的内心世界。
  口头禅:“凭什么呀”
  【案例】无论大事小事,公与不公,Anney都会附上她经典的口头禅“凭什么呀?”一天,大家都在忙手头的事, Anney在网上看八卦新闻,突然冒出来一句“凭什么呀?”大家以为网上又有新的猛料,赶紧围拢过去,不料,原来是Anney电脑死机了。一阵“嘘”声后,大家异口同声地回了一句“凭什么呀?”
  【心理潜台词】事情不该是这样的,但却这样发生了。或出于心理失衡,或基于愤世嫉俗,总之,就是看不惯那些与意愿相悖的事,并以重复出现的这句口头禅来鸣不平,缓解郁闷。
  【性格特征】正直,却有几分神经质。苛刻,但不一定专门针对你。对公平和特权十分敏感,“凭什么呀”,其实是在诉苦,抑或是在控诉,典型的“愤青”情结。
  【和他处】提醒他学会管理公平、平衡心态非常必要。因为随时随地都有不公现象在发生,事事看不惯,不光自己活得累,别人看着也觉得累。口头禅所暴露的,常常是心理和思维的惯性,所以,他要管理的不是不公现象,而是自己的不公心态。
  口头禅:“不靠谱”
  【案例】“我看这事不靠谱!”大家头脑风暴时,Sam常会来上这么一句,本来熊熊燃烧的激情和创意,顷刻间就被浇灭。
  【心理潜台词】老是把“不靠谱”挂在嘴上,事事担心,觉着“人人不靠谱”,实际上是主观在“怀疑一切”。只是Sam从来没有意识到,“只是我在怀疑罢了”,而非事事都真的可疑,可疑的只是他自己。因为不确信结果,所以就怀疑一切,这不是防微杜渐,而是为不自信和不敢承担结果找托词。
  【性格特征】多疑、苛刻,既求细节又重结果,容不得半点差错和不顺心,典型的完美主义者。很多时候,他顾虑更多的是自己的感受,很难设身处地为他人着想,往往把一些意外因素主观地归结到他人身上。
  【和他处】与他共事要谨慎,最好把丑话说在前头:“我可不是不靠谱的人,不过一些不可控因素会让事情的结果难以预期,但我会尽力的,谋事在人,成事在天嘛。”千万记得单独强调一句:“你说对吗?”直到他点头承认为止。
  口头禅:事情不是这样的
  【案例】本来完全可以从正向导入的评论,曾总却非要从否定别人开始谈自己的意见:“事情不是这样的……”其实,曾总接下来要说的,无非还是“事情是这样的……”奇怪的是,无论别人说的正确与否,无论是想补充、肯定还是反驳,他都会从这句口头禅开始自己滔滔不绝的讲演。
  【心理潜台词】“事情不是这样的”,这句口头禅是特别提醒,它告诉大家,下面我要讲自己的观点了。无论正规场合,还是私下聊天,他都非常害怕自己被忽略,因此总是想通过否定别人来突出自己,某种程度上也可看出其自我认同相对较低。
  【性格特征】有主见,任性,同时也很脆弱。很多时候,他是“刀子嘴豆腐心”,未见得有多难相处,只要给予必要的尊重,他就会返还给你加倍的热情,且“一条道走到黑”,把你当成忠实的合作伙伴或知心朋友。
  【和他处】当他讲完“事情不是这样的” 后面的内容时,如有不同意见,可以反用他的口头禅:“事情应该是这样的……”既委婉温和,又是对他的尊重,不会触动他内心脆弱的神经。另外,日常工作中,多注意征询他的意见和建议,既有助于问题的解决,又可以有效提高彼此之间的融合指数。
  口头禅:“我晕”
  【案例】相信看到这句口头禅,都有一种莫名的亲切感。无论MSN在线,还是在职场,或是私下聊天,“我晕!”都随处可见。别人帮她递错了东西,“我晕”;听到她不知道的八卦,“我晕”;被人恭维,“我晕”;车钥匙没带,“我晕”……
  【心理潜台词】任何时候,只要事情不是预计和想象的那样,都会“晕”。其实问题一般没那么严重,但总是习惯于在潜意识里夸大成像,并在表露于口头禅的夸张情绪中反映出来。
  【性格特征】活泼,坦诚,不隐讳个人感情,但容易意气用事。一句“我晕”,将所有的人和事一视同仁,等量齐观。所以,她善于从广度上发现问题,但不擅长从深度上思考问题。
  【和他处】和一个内心袒露的人相处,还是相对轻松容易的。她情绪的每次波动,都会在“我晕”中透露无遗。至少,只要出现这个口头禅,即使我们还不知道事出何因,也足以捕捉到她内心的震动。亡羊补牢吧,或者好言相劝。不过,在原则问题上,不能太照顾她的心理感受,因为她的“晕”是一种常态。
  口头禅:“好呀好呀!”
  【案例】“不好意思,日程有变,来不了了,要不咱们约明天?”“好呀好呀!”“那个客户很难搞,明天要不你跟我一起去见?”“好呀好呀!”……同事们最喜欢Alex了,但很多人也最喜欢欺负Alex,全都因为Alex那句不带任何回绝意味的口头禅“好呀好呀!”
  【心理潜台词】或许,Alex压根就没想过要去拒绝别人,或者不善于说“NO”,总觉得拒绝是件害羞或不好的行为,因此,无论份内份外之事,他都习惯性地“好呀好呀!”不过,事后也会生自己的气:“为什么当时我要说好,其实我觉得不好呀!”
  【性格特征】性格爽朗,热情大方,内心善良,待人接物比较随和。
  但在很多事情上缺乏主见和立场,给人感觉是个“老好人”。他的性格也会给一些爱占便宜的“坏人”有机可乘,更会给自己带来额外的麻烦和负担。
  【和他处】和他相处,感觉特爽,似乎就没有他不想办不能办的事。但还是要照顾他内心的感受,别看他口头不说,有时内心可矛盾着呢。如果是他份内之事,你的沟通成本会很小,但如果是他份外之事,能自己效劳的还是自己动手吧。假如别人对他太过分,护着他点,因为这样的“好伙伴”毕竟不多见。
  口头禅:“亲爱的!”
  【案例】这句本该属于爱人间的昵称,不知何时成了Office的常用语。无论女女之间,男女之间,还是男男之间,“亲爱的”成了非亲爱的之间的示好祈使句。
  【心理潜台词】 “亲爱的”之后,可能是“帮我把这个文件弄好”、“替我想个办法”之类的要求,类似驴子眼前的胡萝卜,也可能是在委婉地表达不满,给个巴掌前,给个甜枣先。
  【性格特征】绝对Modern,传统观念淡薄,愿意改变自我,遇事积极主动,对人际关系观察敏锐。但有时多变,易受情绪影响,很可能刚刚还在叫你“亲爱的”,现在却气极败坏。
  【和他处】不要被甜言蜜语唬住!别被这种口头禅的示好夺去立场。但在日常交往中,“亲爱的”又是他心情的晴雨表,这个口头禅出现的频率越高,就表示越High.记住,他心情好的时候,是会答应你很多要求的哟。
  口头禅:“你先听我说”
  【案例】大家讨论正起劲,林风站了起来,摆动他一贯的领袖手势:“Stop,你们先听我说!”平时也是,要么把别人的嘴堵住:“等等,先听我说!”要么话到中途,一句 “先听我说”扼杀别人的后半段。
  【心理潜台词】他非常在意自己的看法,而一个“先”字,表露出他担心对方误解自己的心理。总之,他一方面希望别人重视、尊重他的意见,另一方面又在担心别人对自己的误解。
  【性格特征】自信心控制欲强,自认能将对方说服,令之相信。沟通中将别人打断,或不让对方说话,又表明他的性格有些急躁,内心常有不平。
  【和他处】和他相处是一场控制与反控制的博弈。如果比他弱,就好办一点,因为你在控制欲极强的人心里,是最安全的,而你在原则问题上偶尔的反抗,会让他觉得更有吸引力。如果和他性格类似,就不要示弱,强者对强者,永远是更强者得胜。
  口头禅:“不信咱打赌”
  【案例】“看来,今天老大心情不错,明天加薪一定没问题,不信咱打赌!”听起来好像信心十足的样子哦。不过,常说这个口头禅的人,最好还是有充分的思想准备,少和自己打赌为妙,以免因为没有达到预期结果而失望倍增。
  【心理潜台词】假如男人的口头禅经常表露要跟你打赌,并不证明他一定有把握,因为这类男人有时更易相信侥幸。假如中奖率与车祸比率差不多,他宁愿相信中头彩,也不愿相信自己会遭车祸。
  【性格特征】自信,敢于冒险,但有时盲目乐观,对负面结果估计不足。固执己见,认定的事情一般人很难扭转。他未必好赌,但“赌徒”心理时常会左右他做出不恰当的决策和举动,让事情朝着不好的方向发展。
  【和他处】泼点冷水对他有好处,但要注意方法。他不是爱“打赌”吗?那就跟他赌一把,不过事前要对结果了如指掌。如果结果偏向他预计的方向,那就赌小点,越小越好,让他赢了也觉得没意思。如若相反,那就加重砝码,越重越好,让他输得悔到深处。如果实在没有把握稳赢,口头提醒一下也未尝不可:“小心爬得越高,摔得越惨!”
5 Date: 2008-07-24 09:32:21
我的口头禅是“晕”
6 Date: 2008-07-24 09:33:15
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Talk about your pet phrase

Pet phrase is a  peculiar idiom,that people blurted out without thinking. It is a true vision of people’s  characters and their own emothins.Therefore,it can be regards as the label of them.I think about the pet phrase of me and the  people hereabouts,find a big world in it.  
Xixi,first talk the pet phrase about myself.My Pet phrases are so many.Above all,the Pet phrases below are the most commonly used.such as “Yun”””、“watch-----”(I can not translate the Pet phrase biao—  )、“no”、“yumen ”、 “shenjing”、“ HOHO” “what’s this”、“I can’t help  ”、“yeah”、“di”....Xixi,it is so many,isn’t it?Actually,I think the Pet phrase is popular at a time,and you will learn it  without thinking,and use it too.For instance, I learnt the “no ward”form some people,and at the time,I often said this word,this word’s mean is more or less likely as the word “Yun”.In addition, a part of speech is the“ai”、“oh”、“en”...amomg these, the most commonly used Pet phrase is “oh”。
When I was in the school,I learnt the Pet phrasewrong or not , may be it is “Mowenwei”, I forget.I often said this to my classmates.
Then I will say some friends in the iciba,their pet phrases are so common.like 将错就错GG,he often said “mao si” 伶儿often said “qie”&””han; zhanny likes to say “load”(thoug he is not the Christian*.*),and other people often said  the “la dao”…
And one of my friend,who is a boss,he often said the “shao lai”
Finally,I want to saygive me the markLoL*.*

说说偶和大家的口头禅

  口头禅往往是一个人在最不经意的情况下脱口而出的习惯用语,它最能真实地反映一个人的内心世界和性格特征,因此可以把它看作一个人的标签。琢磨了一下自己和周围人们的口头禅,发现还真是小话语大世界呢。
    嘻嘻,先说说偶自己吧,本人的口头禅可多了去了,总的说来,以下几个是最常用的,“晕”、“表-----”、“不会吧”、“郁闷 ”、 “神经”、“吼吼”(HOHO)“什么东东”、“没办办(没办法)”、“9494”(就是)、“...滴”.......嘻嘻,够多吧。其实偶认为口头禅往往会是很流行的东东,不经意地就跟人家学了。比如,在以前,偶不知从谁那里学来了“无语”(现在偶用“晕”代替了)。那段时间,逢人便说“无语”,这个意思大概和“晕”字差不多吧。再如感叹词一类的便是“唉”、“哦”、“嗯”......其中,“哦”使用的频率最高了。随便敷衍人家,就“哦”一下,表示自己在听他讲话,又不发表意见。
    偶记得上小学时,好像一个名星有句口头禅叫“有无搞错”,可能是莫文慰吧,偶就愣是学来了,和同学说话经常会蹦出这个口头禅。如果再说的形象点,“有无搞错”这几个字应该这样念,“有无”要快点,而且是连读的,“搞错”稍微慢点,还要延长着读,在乐谱中,可以将“有无搞错”分成两拍,“有无”为两个半拍,“搞错”为一拍,最后还有个延音,呵呵。
    再来说说词霸中朋友的口头禅,比如将错就错GG喜欢说“貌似”(74这个大家都说滴)、伶儿爱说“切!”、“汗”,zhanny肯定爱说“lord”(虽然他不是一个基督教者,但偶发现他喜欢用上帝这个字眼,哈哈);还有的总是说“拉倒吧你”。

    偶有个朋友,他是个老板,办公司的,他也有口头禅,有事没事就说“少来”。
    说了这么多,呵呵,最后再说一个“分分拿来”,哈哈!


最后由 文俊521 于 2008-07-24 17:32:51编辑
7 Date: 2008-07-24 09:34:07
When I was a boy,I have lot of pet phrases.But they all are rude pet phrases.At that time ,everybody have rude pet phrases with boy of in my city .They ofen loud say 'ta ma de',this is example,the words rude than this.When I am know that pet phrases is bad words,I had tried to change.I used to rubber hand around my wrist, when I say that words and I spring rubber hand.Oh my god, that was very pain.But changed custom of rude pet phrases was very hard.Ultimately I have a chance to change,I speak use Mandarin Chinese and less use dialect.Miracle appear it.I had not rude pet phrases,meanwhile I lost all pet phrases.So I not used to speak pet phrases.
最后由 safing 于 2008-07-25 09:10:22编辑
8 Date: 2008-07-24 09:36:30
Talk about your pet phrase
o yer
9 Date: 2008-07-24 09:39:02
My pet phrase is “真的假的?”
最后由 蜡笔小姨 于 2008-07-24 09:39:57编辑
10 Date: 2008-07-24 09:39:29
everyone so quickly.
I also say oh, 晕,饿的神啊。。。

this is my first time in first page. haha.
最后由 jenny84 于 2008-07-24 09:46:18编辑
11 Date: 2008-07-24 09:41:07


引用it_leon于2008-07-24 09:31发表的文章:
水晶蓝就是强!
英语棒,抢沙发也厉害, 沙发时间居然比楼主的还要快。
楼主时间
Date:2008-07-23 09:30:44

沙发 Date:2008-07-24 09:28:31

说说你的口头禅
Talk abou...



我先晕一下!!主要是很久没有时间坐沙发了,哈哈)
有时时间巧了,就坐上沙发了,要么就玩命刷屏,不过我觉得那样太浪费精力还不一定能坐上沙发。今天就是纯属巧合了,呵呵!
12 Date: 2008-07-24 09:44:24
问别人正在做什么的时候,my pet phrase is "干what呢?"
13 Date: 2008-07-24 09:44:44
My pet phrase is "你想死吧"
14 Date: 2008-07-24 09:45:51
My pet phrase is "no die" "親愛的" "無語" "so interesting"!~
15 Date: 2008-07-24 09:46:27
I think~~~~~~~~~
16 Date: 2008-07-24 09:48:02
my pet phrase is :见鬼!
17 Date: 2008-07-24 09:49:27
oh shit
18 Date: 2008-07-24 09:49:29
Talk about your pet phrase
when the man  have had happy feeling or angry  who ofen  say  pet phrase.nowaday,   most of  us  like speak pet phrase  when they were talking and doing anything  ,especially  the  man , wherever they always like to do  it,

wow    ya ma ha    my pet phrase is "bullshit (break wind) , because my boy friend always speak  dirty  words, so i  scold  him bullshit immediately ,Gradually I was cultivated this  bad habit.

最后由 HK_Tina 于 2008-07-24 15:51:35编辑
19 Date: 2008-07-24 09:49:40
帖主对此回复很满意,所以奖励 15 积分给randy_ji
Talk about your pet phrase

My pet phase is “” “你强的” and so on.
I think the pet phase may be changed easily with the different environment or get long with someone. Just my opinion.

Around me, my colleagues or my friends or the other people also have their own pet phases. It’s so interesting.

For example, once had a lesson, a boy classmate always talked with others on the class ignoring the blaming. It made the teacher beyond endurance, then blame the boy. The boy student said ‘册那’(This is his pet phase in shanghai accent ). The teacher heard what he said and got so angry he said the word “册那” is very impolite. Aftermath, the student was evicted out of the classroom by the teacher.
I hear most of the  people say “册那” as their pet phase. It becomes a habit in Shanghai.

One of my girl friends, she is very lovely and always say “那可不是” as her pet phase, when she say it, her humourous accent always make us laugh at once.
Along with my dear friends, we always call other "Dears(亲爱的)" ^@^

Each people may have their own or particular pet phase.  Sometimes maybe influenced by other people, we will develop new pet phase.

I think the network is a well trench to spread the pet phase such as “MS” “” and so on.

Above is only my personal opinion.


最后由 randy_ji 于 2008-07-24 10:50:41编辑
20 Date: 2008-07-24 09:53:40
My pet phrase is "do you think?"  “你认为呢?”
21 Date: 2008-07-24 09:54:24
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