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牵手就不要放手 Hold on her hands tightly

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有一张游戏光盘，名字叫《别让那只鸟飞了》。游戏打开之后是一栋具有皇家风范的豪宅，其内各项生活设施应有尽有。在这里，你可以随心所欲地生活。但与现实不同的是这栋豪宅里有一只鸟在飞，它有一个特点：不论你是外出，还是在家，你都不能忘记往这只鸟的篮子里放东西。假如你忘了，屏幕上就会出现豪宅倒塌，野草丛生。那么该向那只篮子里放什么东西呢？游戏里有一份菜单，上面有包括金钱、花朵、微笑、哭泣、亲吻在内的 152种日常用品和日常行为。被赋予了不同的时间价值，有的代表一个月，有的只代表 3 分钟。

其实这只鸟是一只婚姻鸟。它告诉我们，一句微不足道的赞许，一杯顺手递去的热茶，一枝10块钱的玫瑰，这些日常生活中微不足道的东西，具有滋养婚姻的神奇力量。把心带回家——不要把一生心血精华卖给公司，留给家人的却是破铜烂铁。为了呵护你的爱情鸟，你愿意或将会愿意做些什么哪？

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楼主 Date: 2008-08-15 09:30:33

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There is a classic saying: Marriage is the grave of love.
Right or not?
How long is love to marriage ?
最后由 Vernassa 于 2008-08-15 09:45:05编辑

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又坐了凳子
这几期的话题偶很喜欢

最后由文俊５２１于 2008-08-15 09:32:27编辑

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                                 Love
  Love is the most beautiful thing in the world.We all know,love can make us warm,move,happy and even enable us go through the trouble time.We all need love,love make life more wonderful.
  There love only point to the affection,between boy and girl,between man and woman.In this situation,love has more meaning,not only the romantic feeling between each other,the common thing that they share,but also include understanding,comprehensive and responsiblity and sth. else.In the real world,there are usual some contradictions.Maybe you want to be with him forever,even at every second.That's normal before the marriage.However,when you get married,you should learn how to love him and leave the space for each other.
  "Marry","M"---"mutual"---understand each other
         "a" ---"appreciation"---appreciate each other
         "r"---"responsiblity"---be respond for your lover
         "r"---"reliability"---believe in each other
  So my opinion is if you love him ,you needn't hold on him tightly,just leave some space for him and do sth. support him silently.Give him a smile everyday,send an email for him once a week,accompany him when he got into trouble,waiting for him until he come back home and so on.Maybe it will be better.
  如果你真正的爱一个人，会默默地为他付出，唯一的希望就是他能够得到幸福，而不是能够和他永远在一起。
最后由 Rainbowv 于 2008-08-22 13:07:26编辑

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牵手就不要放手 Hold on her hands tightly

The initial love ,always makes one feel dulcet, from that moment ,in your life there is another person who accompany with you , share with you joys and sorrows ,you are not lonely anymore, at least he/she miss you ,love you ,whatever you do, he will support you, that’s enough. In the following one or two years ,you will spend a good time together ,he/she in your eyes is perfect, you even would like to do some change for him/her, we could contain or indulge one another.

As you know each other well ,you began to find his/her flaw , conflict occurs, you are not content with him/her, start to dislike him ,and even want to escape, you think you can’t live together, so choose to part or divorce. In fact most of people won’t impulsive, for the past love ,for the family ,for the reputation ,they live together reluctantly, as we know ,such life is bitter

But what bring up the result, it’s visible, that’s life ,everyone will experience this, the key is how to handle it properly, everything will become plain with the lapse of time, so I want to say cherish what you own now ,although there are some unhappies between you, try to work it out ,just for the past love, I think through our try, problems will be ok ,so ,let’s com on ! Hold on her hands tightly

最后由小王贵于 2008-08-15 17:01:21编辑

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郁闷，本来应该抢得到沙发的？？？？？

最后由柠檬草8 于 2008-08-15 09:31:32编辑

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Hold on his hands tightly

For I love u,so I hold ur hands,and I will never let it go.

Once I think all the love story must be earthshaking,and it is perfect; I believe the fragmentary love is the most beautiful; and the love must be vigorous,and it is the really love.and I believe that all the love must have  a solemn pledge of love…however,these just will appear in the novel,and our life of love without the vigorous,and too many weepy love story . and then we tend towards to the real-life form the visional world. We don’t yearn towards solemn pledge of love anymore, we only yearn for the love as” Hold on his hands tightly,and be old together with him, and nvever give up.

I met him in the company I worked before, and we fell in love with each other at first sight. So we held on each other’s hands tightly. We  quarrelled sometimes,and we became pacification soon. Aftere we quarrelled,he always enclasp my little hands with his big hands. And he held me tightly,and for fear that I will lost if he did not hold me . and sometimes,we had quarrelled terribly,and I want to give up. But when I think of that his goodness,and I give up this idea,and we hold on each other’s hands all the time,and we are always together.

We lived together for nearly 2 years, peradventure the plain life is the real life. We can’t go everywhere together,and be accompany with each other in the human society,but we can share the beautiful morning and dusk toghther,and we can hold on each other’s  hands tightly,and go along the long life together,even if there were too much hardship and dangerand difficulties in the road.
Hold on his hands tightly,it seems a plain words,but it contains too much courage. Hold on his hands tightly,go along the long road,and get through the continuous difficulties with you. To share the hardship and the happiness together.

Hold on his hands tightly,and to share a little umbrella in the rain,and the warn coat in the wind,let the solemn pledge of love be dim,and the love of “Holding on one’s hands tightly” moves the whole world.

Maybe saying nothing,and just hold on his hands tightly,and go along every crossing,and put my heart to your hand,and let us be with each other together,and never give up.

I will hold on your hands tightly forever, dear,and never let go.

执子之手，与子偕老！

牵手是因为爱。我爱他，所以一起牵着他的手，绝不放手！

曾经以为所有的爱情故事都一定要惊天地，泣鬼神才算完美，曾经以为只有留有残缺的爱情才是最美的，曾经以为每个人的爱情都一定要轰轰烈烈才能称得上爱情，曾经以为所有的爱情都有花前月下，海誓山盟……然而这些爱情都只是在小说里才会出现的场面，在我们的生活中没有那么多轰轰烈烈，没有那么多催人泪下的梁祝式爱情故事。于是我们开始从虚幻的世界走向现实的世界，我们开始不再向往那么多的山盟海誓，我们只是渴望能有这样一份爱情——执子之手，与子偕老。牵着他（她）的手，和他一起慢慢变老。

和他是在一个公司认识的，和他好像是一见钟情。于是就很自然地牵手了，中间没有什么插曲。其中也有小打小闹，但很快又和好如初了，有时吵架后，他总会用他那温暖的大手，握紧我的小手，好像一不握住，我就会丢了似的。有几次，吵得凶了，也想过要放弃，但是想想他对我的好，想到他给我端茶送水，在他的照顾下，我过着衣来伸手，饭来张口的幸福日子，我就不忍心了，我们的手始终是牵在一起的，彼此没有偏离过对方。
我们就这样牵手过了两年春秋。或者平平淡淡正是人生的真谛吧，我们虽然不能一同浪迹天涯，红尘作伴，但我们至少可以享有每个美丽的清晨和黄昏，我们可以执子之手地走过所有漫长的道路，哪怕路途中有着无数艰难险阻。

执子之手，看似是句平淡无奇的话语，其间却包含着那么大的勇气.执子之手，走完那一段又一段的长路，以及坎坷的道路，度过一次又一次的难关，在所有的道路上与你携手走过。有难同当，有福同享。

执子之手，在雨中共撑一顶小小的伞，在风中共披一件温暖的外套，让所有的山盟海誓都在此刻黯然失色，让执子之手的伟大爱情感动这个世界。

——也许只是什么话也不说，只是在这漫长的道路上,携手走过每一个路口，把我的真心放在你手中，携手走过一生一世的灿烂。

我会永远牵着你的手的，囝囝，绝不放手。

（感觉有太多要写，就写到这里吧*.*）

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Hold on his hands tightly!

To be honest,I am 21 years old,but my boyfriend is older than me.concretely to say,he is old enough to get married.sometimes,people ask that when we will have a wedding or hope to attend our wedding as soon as possible,I feel a little embarrassed.

   After 6 days we fell in love,I once told him that I wouldn't like to marry early.his reply was that he wanted me be happy always.After that,we never talk about this topic until now,we just love each other and help each other.

      To a certain extent,I am not very clear about the meaning of marriage.But still,there is a long way everyone should set foot on.There will be lonely,happy,boring,sadly,or nothing else.One day you will catch a cold,you will have a headache,at this time,a person who you know take care of you and comfort you.Day by day,you have knew each other more and more,you own the same hobbies,you like singing the same song and watching the same movies.I guess,it must be a little like marriage.

      How time flies,you recognize that you should be a family,and then you can live together forever.The man is a husband,the woman is a wife.From then on you won't feel lonely,because that you can discuss whether the TV program is wonderful or not after you leaving work,and you can congratulate the success of olympic games sitting on the soft sofa.After a period of time,you think you should have a kid,and it will bring you more interest and happy.So a child is coming.

      You bring the child up,educate him,take care of him,always love him.you send him go to school,watch him fall in love,and then he marry with others.you are so happy and you feel tried.you are old and you notice your coachfellow have white hair.

      And then you love each other more and cherish each other more.At the end of life,you hold his hands tightly when you died.you said,the most beautiful thing in the world is always be with you.

最后由 myla19870320 于 2008-08-15 16:51:44编辑

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,I am late again

9 楼 Date: 2008-08-15 09:32:13

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引用柠檬草8于2008-08-15 09:30发表的文章:
郁闷，本来应该抢得到沙发的？？？？？

最后由柠檬草8 于 2008-08-15 09:31:32编辑

晕，偶就慢了一秒

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引用Rainbowv于2008-08-15 09:32发表的文章:

,I am late again

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hold on her hand tightly.

12 楼 Date: 2008-08-15 09:33:34

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Take care of the bird!
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牵手就不要放手

Hold on her hands tightly

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Hold on her hands tightly
I really argue that jackie0783 is a romantic girl who looks like one of my colleague. My colleague is going to wedding palace quite soon. She told me she wanted to get marry intensively, the family life was quite suitable for her personality. She want to be a home maker. To make dinner for her husband, to clean their cozy house everyday. It’s her wonderful and dramatice life. However, I don’t think I also like this style of life. I always think that office lady is better than home maker. Because to be an office lady, I can catch my dream more easily. If I am a house keeper, perhaps I can only stay in home and all the dreams have become far away from me.

The responsibility is the most important thing to establish a family. But it’s a pity that more and more people have ignored it. Especially the Gernaration Y. To be an one child, childern almost think of themselves rather than standing on others side. We all want to gain or catch something but give or pay out something. Talk about this, I found our team-working is so bad in the Olympic Games. Why Chinese athletes can only win one-man item, but football, volleyball, basketball are bad performance. People said it was our weak body erengy. But I doult this viewpoint. I think team-working is the basical element of winning or failing a contest.

So to establish a family, two-people-teamworking is also important. Husband an wife act different role in the family. They are both important to a family. I read an article in ‘reader’ magazine when I was in 1996. The article titled ‘Husband to be a wife in one week.’ It’s a wife’s diary. She said his husband couldn’t do well in household such as cleaning dish, making breakfast, helping their child wear clothes, etc. However, the wife also couldn’t do well in the household which men did. Such as changing car tire, cleaning the weeds, mending the household electric appliances, etc. So man and woman are both important to a family.

My romantic colleague told me a story last time. She said husband and wife like two hedgehogs. If they stayed too closely, they would prick to each other, however, if they stadyed too far away, they would feel cold in winter. So how to deal with this problem? They should whittle down some of their stings, then they can stayed closely to keep warm. It’s a good metaphor for a family. Marriage is not possession,but donation.

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引用jackie0783于2008-08-15 09:34发表的文章:
Take care of the bird!
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yeah

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引用crystalblue1900于2008-08-15 09:37发表的文章:
Hold on her hands tightly

Hello, dude
Glad to see you again!

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引用crystalblue1900于2008-08-15 09:37发表的文章:
Hold on her hands tightly

MM,好久不见

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，你第几期写错了，应该是394

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引用文俊５２１于2008-08-15 09:42发表的文章:
jackie0783

，你第几期写错了，应该是394

sorry for my carelessness
thank you !

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引用jackie0783于2008-08-15 09:48发表的文章:
sorry for my carelessness
thank you !

u r welcome

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