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男人,你也会做家务吗?

Man,can you do the houseworks too?

       说到家务,似乎就是女人的事情。而且,从封建社会到现在,女性承担家务活似乎理所当然。洗衣,做饭,打扫……宛如家中的粗壮劳力。
  那么,家里的男人是干什么用的?他们的“份内”事就是躺在沙发上吃零食,看电视,一边上网,游戏,一边等待开饭?
  在这个男女日益平等的社会,既然女人早已参与挣钱养家的行列,背负同那人一样的责任和重担,为何男人就不能理所当然的分担一些家务?会做饭的,抢着干家务的男人一直以来都被视为珍宝。

有多少男人现在在给老婆做饭,又有多少男人承担家务?一起来聊,你家的“他”会帮你做家务么?你是否独自一人,在工作辛苦之余统揽家务?你介意他的“好吃懒做”么?(假如你还没结婚可以说说你家里的男人们,或者说说你对男人做家务的看法

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楼主 Date: 2008-08-20 09:38:09
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Morning all ~~~~~
In my family, my father doesnot do any housework at all. At first i cannot understand my mother and thought that it was quite easy to do all the housework, but when i live for myself, i know that how difficult it could be to do all the housework herself.
Now when i go back home, i often help her with the heavy housework.
最后由 Nicoleforever 于 2008-08-21 08:34:34编辑
沙发 Date: 2008-08-20 09:38:22
2th , Good morning ! what a happy day !!
最后由 爱EN文 于 2008-08-20 09:39:42编辑
板凳 Date: 2008-08-20 09:38:30
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good morning all!
Mancan you do the houseworks too?
It’s is rare that man in this society doing less housework than woman.  Even after a few centuries most women has got independent skills and working just as good as men, but still phychologist find out women cares the family generally more than man.

But is that means man deserves doing less house work, no. I believe man also appreciate a clean, orderly house so they have to put their effort in it. The research also shows man has less motivation to do house work, that makes woman need list the work on the schedules or request her man’s participation.  Usually on start very a few man can follow the schedules fully responsible . But remember communications are always best way to motivate him to restart.  
Man generally doesn’t do as good as woman for the housework on start, but encourage them don’t because they wasn't did best so give up. Here are the examples from me(not successful yet:) ); there was not one time my husband washing the dishes with good quality. And I am star sign Virgo which means everything I have needs to be perfect cleaned. So from start I was always in puzzle of what he did and sometimes I have to get up in the middle of night to reclean it. Once a while he find out so he decided not to work any more, the reason was his job hasn't been respected. So I explained to him that I am Virgo person who can't leave anything behind after I did apologize. He accepted and laughed at me. And now we perfectly working together, I cook and he prepares the food (including washing. …), I serving and let him set up the table, after I tidy up and he washs the dishes. We both did well and we both are very happy. Like this we don’t feel bored during the housework, coz we work as a team.

Like I said to him, we are the family so we need work as a team. I need you and your whole support. we are not just have the home together but also taking care of our home together.

So ladies, get him to work, get him Vacuum the House and do the Laundry, tell them we are all a part of the family. J

Ps. While I was writing here, my husband slinking into the room read the topic without let me know. I got really freak out when I saw him. Thought was a ghost..haha….and he was seriously told me, I should not send this topic on the internet to imperil other families…. Ha-a just kidding. Ok ladies let's share the secrets.wish you all have a great man to do the housework.
最后由 Zhenhuayao 于 2008-08-20 13:35:11编辑
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Some one said that a man can do the housework is not a real man,and a little woman-like. But I don’t think so,I think this kind of man who can help to do the housework ,is a man who knows how to live and with chariness. Isn’t it a happy thing that to help his lover cook and wash?
The facts shows that women like their husband to do some housework. The key is how to lead them,and let them know it ought to. Habit change into character.
I like the man with handsome face and can do the housework too,XIXI. I find these men are matureand some of  them are boss and leaders.
Once a cook pursued me,and but for I have bf then,I must fall in love with him. For I can not cook,and he can cook well,and his food is so delicious.hehe,if I had married to him,my stomache  must be very happy.*.* I did not marry to him just as well, or else I must be the pig.*.*
I did not like to do the house work,and I wish my future partner can help me to do it. I find it unfair that we must do the housework and the men don’t.
有人说,会做家务的男人娘娘腔。我认为。这样的男人并非不够男人,反而觉得他懂得生活,细心。能为自己爱的人做饭,洗衣难道不是一种幸福么?

    事实也证明了大多数女人并不反对男人下厨房的!关键看女人这样去引导了,要让男人觉得下厨房是他应该做的,习惯成自然!
我就喜欢那种“上得厅堂,下得厨房”的男人,嘻嘻。偶发现这样的男人一般都很成熟,有些还是高层呢。*.*
曾经有个厨师帅哥来追偶,要不是我已经有了文俊,早就向他投降了。因为偶不会做饭,他能做得一手好菜,呵呵,如果嫁给他,以后我的胃就有福了。幸好没有选他,不然偶肯定变成猪猪了,嘿嘿。
偶自己不喜欢做家务,所以希望自己的另一半能做家务,替我分担一点也好啊。觉得这个世界真的不公平哎,为什么偶们女生一边要工作,还要做家务,好像是理所当然的;而他们男生呢,只要工作就可以了,做家务好像和他们无关。
偶承认自己是有点大女子主义的,什么事都要依我,一不满意,就发脾气。偶以前也和自己的男友说过,以后偶不要做家务的,偶宁可工作请保姆,也不做家务,哈哈。
所以对偶这样的女生来说,找一个会做家务的男人是很幸福滴事。

最后由 文俊521 于 2008-08-21 09:34:47编辑
6 Date: 2008-08-20 09:39:07
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男人,你也会做家务吗?

Man,can you do the houseworks too?

This topic is funny, tell about my family and my BF.
In my family, mother seems to play more important role, father is very kind, mother is a little masterful, so they are complementary, she always make all the things in perfect order, when something is out of her reach, she will ask father to do ,he’s willing to do basically, in my family, there is rarely quarrel ,we always live in harmony, but things are not always like that, sometimes mother ask father to do one thing, he did ,but not well ,mother will ask him to redo, then father will angry and don’t want to do, they will tangle with each other. For the main ,father is eligible to mother.

A few days ago ,I called them, mother said now father was making dinner, it sounds that she is happy, they are old now ,a lot of things they are doing together ,I admire them really.

My BF, in fact we don’t cohabit together, I live with him on weekends commonly, how to describe him? He loves clean, even I don’t think he is suitable to be a man, hehe, I also hate lazy man, but just his little male chauvinism, he often says the household is women’s thing, men shouldn’t washing clothes or making dinner, it will be mocked by others, “To say is one issue, to do is other issue” at home he washes clothes by himself ,sometimes helps me to wash, he makes tasteful meal for me ,most of the time we do together ,it’s interesting ,I know if we get married ,everyday face each other ,it must be boring , so we should adjust our attitude, plain life has simple happiness.

My views is that we should do household together, the one who has more free time makes dinner, washing clothes , husband and wife should care and support with each other .

最后由 小王贵 于 2008-08-20 13:28:57编辑
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最后由 Rainbowv 于 2008-08-20 09:41:11编辑
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引用Nicoleforever于2008-08-20 09:38发表的文章:
Morning all ~~~~~

9 Date: 2008-08-20 09:39:42
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Man,can you do the houseworks too?

Man,can you do the houseworks too?
To establish a family, husband an wife act different role in the family. They are both important to a family. I read an article in ‘reader’ magazine when I was in 1996. The article titled ‘Husband to be a wife in one week.’ It’s a wife’s diary. She said his husband couldn’t do well in household such as cleaning dish, making breakfast, helping their child wear clothes, etc. However, the wife also couldn’t do well in the household which men did. Such as changing car tire, cleaning the weeds, mending the household electric appliances, etc. So man and woman are both important to a family.

We know almost all the men are lazier than women. In their mind, to do housework is the duty of a woman. However, we also see some men who are in charge of houseworking. The household is belong to a family, not just for woman or man. If I feel sick today, husband would help me do the housework. So housework is not the abusolute duty of woman or man, it belong to a family. If a man dose housworks after finishing working everday, I don't think he is an excelent man. Man should earn money to support the family, wife should be a good housewife to support the man. In Bible, we can see that man is the head of woman, men should love his wife, and the wife should support the husband. So we should obey the truth in Bible.
We just saw the side of man who sitting in the sofa to read newspaper, but we didn't see his tried face. In man's mind, the responsibility is to hold up the family. They do many effort on job to earn more money. If a woman felt sad, she could cry to release the pressure or emotion. But man not, he can't cry, he must hind the pressure in their heart or sometimes relax the spirit by drinking. A good man shouldn't touch gambling, drug and intemperance,etc. So to balance a good man, doing houseworks is not the standard.
最后由 crystalblue1900 于 2008-08-20 23:16:34编辑
10 Date: 2008-08-20 09:39:58
5555555555大家不要骂我 刚才编辑好了的,忘记发出了 都是老板的一通电话打来害的
11 Date: 2008-08-20 09:40:32
12 floor! Wish make improvement everday!
[Man,can you do the houseworks too?]
Of course!What are the houseworks you mean?I can do the washing,cook dinner and sweep clean at least!
And another housework I think is that I can always love my future wife,forever!

最后由 Alexjie 于 2008-08-20 10:03:27编辑
12 Date: 2008-08-20 09:40:33


引用Nicoleforever于2008-08-20 09:38发表的文章:
Morning all ~~~~~

时间不准,沙发照旧
13 Date: 2008-08-20 09:41:07
i can't answer
14 Date: 2008-08-20 09:50:32
家里的那个他是绝对不会做家务的.但是做饭他还是很愿意的!
因为我们两个是不同省分,不同地域的,所以没办法,我做饭他不喜欢吃,只能自己做了.
15 Date: 2008-08-20 09:55:57
everyone is here
16 Date: 2008-08-20 09:57:14

男人,你也会做家务吗?

Man,can you do the houseworks too?
my husband,上班前,下班后,cooking,make cleaning,nursing our bb,a very responsible man.
最后由 LITTLEWING 于 2008-08-20 09:58:27编辑
17 Date: 2008-08-20 09:57:51
may be, i can do homework.

but a great many time i can't do home work
18 Date: 2008-08-20 09:57:53
Morning~~~
19 Date: 2008-08-20 10:01:25


引用LITTLEWING于2008-08-20 09:57发表的文章:

男人,你也会做家务吗?

Man,can you do the houseworks too?
my husband,上班前,下班后,cooking,make cleaning,nursing our bb,a very responsible m...


good man ,i like those man,你真幸福
20 Date: 2008-08-20 10:03:35
oh,man! As a man, I hate the topic, because it has some meaning of gender discriminationI guess that the guy who gave the topic is probably a lady.
Now, more and more men could and really do houseworks, because the traditional social view that houseworks are women's business has been changing all the time. And, another important reason is that by the increase  of  one child-family, the young guys, whether man or woman, have less abilities to do houseworks.
Houseworks are important part of the family, which can influence the destiny of marriage, so, guys, whether you are a man or woman, try to learn and do some houseworks to make your life better.
21 Date: 2008-08-20 10:04:40
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