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如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？
If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

本期话题提供者：leo520（leo520将得到奖励100积分，谢谢支持）

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心中愉快的感觉和外界事物结合起来，于是认为这种感觉正是来自于眼前的这个人。
　　有人说：“热恋像深秋的时节一片片坠落的叶子，哪怕落下，那深刻的颜色也叙说着对爱的执着。”
　　也有人说：“热恋像初夏的阳光透过层层树叶碎碎的撒下来，斑驳的光影，无法完全看清，却又暖暖的。”
　　那么你觉得热恋的感觉是什么呢？

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楼主 Date: 2008-08-27 09:30:19

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It is my first Sofa！

I borrow a Chinese verse to describe the feeling of first love:
少年不识愁滋味，为赋新词强说愁。
I mean, pretty much complex feeling was fabricated and one easily became sentimental, do you agree?
最后由我赛赛于 2008-08-27 09:52:42编辑

沙发 Date: 2008-08-27 09:30:31

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It 's my second wooden seat!
so great!
About love , as the proverb says,"Everybody is poem when he is in love!"
最后由 strive2006 于 2008-08-27 16:28:38编辑

板凳 Date: 2008-08-27 09:30:46

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oh,,no........................lost the sofa again
how could this happen
最后由 Areschan 于 2008-08-27 09:33:45编辑

4 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:30:48

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如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？ If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

Honey&happiness

最后由 jenny84 于 2008-08-27 11:03:42编辑

5 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:36:15

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热恋的感觉是幸福的，我只能这样说
失恋呢就象热热的身体掉进了冰窟里

6 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:36:31

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Intense, contagious emotional excitement

7 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:37:03

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If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

love, actually, is so beautiful a term of endearment that it can activate every nerve of our body to give it happiness as well as sadness, joys as well as tears.

blushing and heart-beating are commonplaces when one falls in love and you know, 9 out of 10, perhaps, will experience this kind of process. but i'm embarrassed to admit that they are just the most superficial things of a love and unable to last for ever. we may feel them temporarily but they are not likely to take root in our heart.

so if i have the chance to describe my feeling of falling in love, i'd like to choose several adjectives-beneficial,safe and warm. maybe in your opinion, these words don't belong to an intense love, but for me, only by feeling them can i really have the strength to move forward in the love.

let's talk about the word "beneficial" first. oh,yeah, i appreciate it so much. to be honest, learning from each other is essential in my mind that a love can not exist without. being together, we need to communicate frequently to exchange our views on life or on the world and therefore, it is preferable for both of us to update of our knowledge. feeling beneficial is so amazing that you can find what you get from love is not only simple affection but also a new attitude to view life which is formed by two persons and through adding, it becomes stronger and more sensitive. from that, you are inclined to perfect yourself in every aspect of all the time. so in that sense, love, actually, leads the two persons to achieve higher and higher both physically and mentally.

with my love, a sense of safety is always around me. in face, he tries his best to protect me from any hurt. there's no mountain too high, no river too wide, as long as love is here, nothing could be compared with it. storm clouds may gather and stars may collide, as long as love is here, i'm scared of nothing, because of him.

besides, falling in love also provides the feeling of warmth. with him around, i tend to be wrapped in his warmth, loving every breath of him. without him by my side, the feeling of warmth doesn't disappear and it seems that he is just beside me, gazing at every expression in my eyes and every slight smell slipping along my mouth. whatever difficulties i may meet with, whatever challenge i may encounter and however depressed i may feel, thinking of him, i immediately turn to be firm, seemingly having received the message he sends to me "fighting! i'm always with you". just fantastic~

i want to make it clear that love is not just with blushing and heart-beating, instead, it contains something else. to some extent,love is so abstract to us and what we need to do is to simplify and reify it. how to manage a love is how to manage your life. they are inseparable.

for me, love is the process of giving and receiving. just cherish every day you are together and those precious feelings you have toward love, with believe and understanding, and that's the true love, i think.

find your own definition about love first, and it'll be much easier for you to manage it.
最后由 cherry_ww 于 2008-08-27 11:08:23编辑

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If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?
Preface: it is sort of weird to talk the love things sitting in office, I wonder how many friends visit the forum while working in the office?

At the first sight of the topic, my memory is pulled back to the university life time when my first love was incubated. I still remember the feeling when the first love suddenly “hit” me, I was absolutely lost with a variety of feeling included NERVOUS, EXCITED, SWEET, LEARY, etc.

Just set my own feeling aside for a while. The topic reminds me of a beautiful picture that often pops up in my mind. It is about the blind date between a young man and a young lady in ancient times.

Just imagine, a young man in white gown and special hat, strolled on a bridge with a paper fan in hand. He was waiting for his girlfriend who he did not see before. Several girls went by, and the man’s heart stroke heavily once a girl walked across the bridge. But none of girls stopped.

The moon rose, just on the top of a willow. But the girl hasn’t shown up. The man’s excited mood at first gradually turned into anxious and impatient. Suddenly, a slim and beautiful girl walked slowly towards him. A single eyesight contact has insured him that she must be the right lady he was waiting. What would he feel? He was right. Then they walked side by side and had a pleasant talk. My story ends here.

I always yearn towards this kind romantic love stories. At the same time, the features of love story usually reflect its typical social features. Apart from the romantic story I just mentioned, there also have been a great many of miserable stories in history. Because of the social regime, people in different social status did not have much chance to know each other and start a love story. Therefore, we should feel luck that we are not born in ancient times.

Times change, we live in the modern times, how can we get our fantastic love? Generally speaking, it is not suitable any more to follow our parents’ generation to hide their true feeling. Instead, we should bravely express the love. Today we have many ways to know new friends, internet, parties, bars and even professional marriage-introduction agencies. After the love is heated and cooled, in order to maintain the fresh of love, we ought to take effective measures to demonstrate our love and care. For instance, you need to bear in mind the important days special for you and prepare simple but sweet gifts in these days. For example, surprise present for the birthday, the day you two meet for first time, the anniversary, and so on.

To be frank, I am an introverted guy from the inner aspect. Only after I am sure the girl have certain favor me, then I plump up to pursue her. Meanwhile, I prefer the love based on accumulative getting along to the first sight love. I am inclined to taking care of others instead of being taken care of. I wish to share all delicious food, fruits and inspiring articles, songs and so on with each other. It will make me content when sharing the joy. In this aspect, the essence of life for me is to share rather than receiving and accepting.

最后由我赛赛于 2008-08-27 11:47:46编辑

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A usually temporary infatuation,it is necessary to make a distinction between love and infatuation.Possessed by an unreasoning passion or attraction.
最后由北極之上于 2008-08-27 09:42:45编辑

10 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:41:56

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morning~~~
如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？
If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

My idea the felling of fall in love is your mind completely blank. You are lost; you don’t know what are you doing! You laugh for no reason, your heart beats faster just thinking about that person. You can hug him again and again but still feel that’s not enough close to him, and when he is away from you your heart lurches for fear that you’ll never see him again.

Love is air, can driver your mind away. It’s actuation you want doing anything for him no meter what. It’s the feeling that best thing in the world is weak up with him in the morning with a big smile. It’s the thing only yourself knows how sweet could be.

There is no word in this world can describe the feeling of love. And I love this feelingJ.

Ps. Wish everyone stay with your lover forever, don’t ever let this feeling fly away because it’s too beautiful and sweet. Wish you all just enjoy every moment to swim in the love air: let it touches your face, touch your heart, and touch your soul.

最后由 Zhenhuayao 于 2008-08-28 06:04:07编辑

11 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:44:07

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就是心跳的感觉，甜蜜。

12 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:45:27

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如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？
If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

13 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:48:32

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If let you describe your feeling of falling in love,whar should be?
Love is very nice.Love is the most weapon which makes you more optimism,more power.Even if you meet some troubles,you will resolve those promblem easily.

14 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 09:54:07

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My first love is not occured first to love someone.My 3th girlfriend let me fall into love's river, that sense lets me feel the first love.In that time ,I was 25 years old and she was 16 years old.Everyday I wake up early and expect to see her . In the morning ,we have a stipulation to play the badminton ,whatever the weather is sunshine or rainning, I wake up early and go to destine site and wait her. I was might be mad, because I never woke up early before.But when I opened my eyes in the morning , I agog want to see her. I am often fear ,when the weather rain , she does not come. I crane my head to gaze at the road end , the time seems no end .I wait and wait. When she appear in my sight, my heart be lighted.Oh my god. I never forget this time. In the morning ,we play the badminton, and night we walk together ,whatever I will go where.We walk and talk ,do not care the road. When I first hand her hand, we walk at the a railway line. I stand a line ,she stand other line ,we go and wobble .Suddenly I hand her hand ,a lightning hit me ,my head stop the thinking. My eyes are just have her. She and I ,all things like first love. I deeply fall into.First kiss ,first swimming,first movie and so on. But in my heart ,I know we have a great gulf fixed , I am older than her 8 years.She will best future ,but I will olding. I can disturb her get a better future.In the end , I leave her. But I love her very much. But you love someone ,you need give her a good future. So I leave.When I said goodby ,my heart was breaked , I could not see her eyes and turned round.Goodby my first love, I will love you forever in my heart.
Pass many years , nowaday ,I find her blog.She married.I am often go to her blog to see her.that are enough by me.Sorry my lover.

最后由 safing 于 2008-08-27 15:56:53编辑

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CRAZY。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

16 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 10:06:58

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I feel so happy when I'm with him as if only him exists in my eyes ,even in my world .
I feel anxious to meet him and want to accompany him every minute.When he is sad or sick , I will run to him , I want to be the first one to comfort him .When I meet sth exciting such as winning the first prize in English Competition ,I will tell him first and I want him to share with my feelings .When we get together ,I feel time flies so fast even without being noticed .We both cherish everytime we meet .During the time in college ,he once told me he would not like to make promises cause it's nothing if he cannot keep it .He didn't want me to be disppointed. However ,we both have jobs now .He made promise to me and swore he would realize it through his hard work.I trust him and expect our bright future with a willing heart .We have been together for about three years ,he loves and cares about me so much ,so do I. Though I'm in Beijing ,he is in Tianjin, I believe we will be the happiest couple in the world .

17 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 10:07:37

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If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

In my opinion,the feeling of falling in love is like you eat the poison. He is the whole world for me, and he can control me, I am very obedient to him. I care of him very much,and sometimes,I am very narrow, I do not like his talking with other girls. When he chatted with other girls,I am so angry.

I have an impulsion to marry to him if I fall in love with him .

I think he is me,and even he is more important than me. I am happy for he is happy; I got sad when he is sad,I like just what he likes,his habit becomes mine,I am satisfied just because he is…once he got collywobbles,though I made a joke :you are expecting!!!haha, A pain stabbed my heart,too.

We have been together for a long time,and I think we look so alike. Last time,he holds me close,standing in front of the mirror,said: we look so alike,doesn’t we? Well, it is the so-called fuqi xiang(I can not translate this*.*). Some one said we are match each other perfactly.

When you fall in love with a person,you will have a feeling of kind. He(she) makes you comfortable. You can trust and rely on him. He is just like ur dear family, I could even say that he is more close to ur own family. The close contains the feeling of warm, it is the feeling of your lover. In the happy kingdom of love, he will not pick the flaw of you,for he will hold all of ur faults. You feel that he is the most handsome boy. Beauty is the eyes of the beholder,haha.
There are all his names in my diary, and I concern all the things related to him. I miss him for a whole night,without sleep. And sometimes I yearn day and night. One moment without him seems like three years.

I feel so happy with him,when have dinner with him,a simple diet is also delicious.

It is a poem of falling in love,and you and she and he is the poet.

如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？

   在我的眼里，热恋的感觉好像是服了毒药----中了情花之毒。他就是我的一切，他可以左右我，我会变得十分听话。我也会十分在意他，会很小气，不喜欢他和别的女孩说笑。每次他和别的女孩聊天，都会很生气。
   会有一种非他不嫁的冲动。
   感觉他就是我，甚至比我自己还要我自己。快乐着他的快乐，痛苦着他的痛苦，喜欢着他的喜欢（爱屋及乌），习惯着他的习惯，满足着他的满足……有次他肚子疼，虽然口中开着玩笑，戏谑地说：你有了（怀孕了，嘻嘻）但是心里也在疼，呵呵。
   在一起时间长了，感觉他和偶会很像。上次，他抱着偶站在镜子前说：我们俩挺像的嘛。呵呵，这就是所谓的夫妻相吧，有不少人说我和他很配，指外表，呵呵。
   当你真正爱上一个人，你会有一种很亲切的感觉，他让你觉的很舒服，你可以信任他、依靠他。他像是一个亲密的家人，甚至可以说，比一个家人更亲密，这是亲密加上一种温馨的感觉，就是亲爱的感觉。在这爱情国度里，他不会挑剔你的瑕疵，因为他愿意包容你所有的缺点。你也会觉得他最帅，情人眼里出西施嘛。
日记里全是他的名，对一切有关他的事和物感兴趣。会整夜地睡不着，想他。对他朝思暮想，一日不见如隔三秋，。

热恋中做什么都觉得快乐，和他一起吃饭，本来普通的饭菜因为有了他的陪伴而变得异常可口。(粗茶淡饭也倍感美味)

热恋是一首诗，同时热恋也可以把我们变成一个诗人。

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18 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 10:09:12

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今天忘记了，和词友聊天呢，呵呵

19 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 10:09:48

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如果让你形容陷入热恋的感觉，会是什么？
If let you describe your feeling of falling in love ,what should be?

20 楼 Date: 2008-08-27 10:10:10

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热恋的感觉是当你伤心时，可以借他肩膀一靠；
热恋的感觉是当你快乐时，可以和他一起分享；
热恋的感觉是当你失落时，他会给你一些安慰；
热恋的感觉是-------------------
热恋的感觉是你会为他不顾一切。愿意无偿为他作一切！
甚至是付出生命。以前真的是这么想的，呵呵

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