It is hard to say, actually, how would I know this man is better? Life can be divided into several stages, childhood, teenager, early twenties, adulthood, and mid-age, and then we get older and older, cherishing every second in this world.
My mother used to tell me that big girls dont cry for the loss of youth but smile to the brand-new future. However, we must learn how to be greatful to those who ever loved us and helped us. I cherish every word she used to teach me. How to be a big girl, how to love people, how to forget.
Actually, along with the road we take, strangers become friends, friends become loved ones, loved ones become passed ones. When I was a little girl, I dreamed about the prince in fairy tales and promised to marry a prince in the future. As I grew up, I realised prince only lives in tales and the world we lived in was a "hell". Then I promised to find a fighter who fears nothing and conqures the world, superman indeed. Afterwards, I realised superman's always busy cleaning the human rabbish. Oh, God, I would end up lonely. As time went by, I finally decided to find a normal man, cute, loving, and just simple. Luckily, I found one, several years ago. He's even better than what I ordered based on my criteria. I was so glad that I met him.
Someday, another man showed up claimed that he had a thing for me. He' s cute and interesting. We had much in common. But, I couldnt face up to him when he revealled his feelings for me. The thing is, how could you know this man is better? I was convinced that I couldnt judge a person without knowing him for years. Love takes time. When you know this people longer, you may realise he is not the right one for you. Dont fall for that. And, dont be a rolling stone, that's not good girls do....
However,(things have to faces, as we talk a lot) when you're struggling in a terrible relationship and desperately want to get out, some man show up, grab him and go go go~~~~ |
