Well , it depends.
If I've got married, I'd say no to my soul mate. Because as long as I had made a wise choice about marry and take a vow, I would shoulder on the responsibilities as a wife. It's likely that my love to my husband fades away as time chewing, but as a wife, the loyalty and faith should not be thrown away. In this case, I'm not alone myself, that is to say, when I struggle to make my decission, I have to take all factors into account, such as my husband, child, parents-in-law, etc. If I abandon my husband to follow my heart, there would be many fierce criticisms agaist me which would probabaly note me as a self-fish person.
But if I just had chemicals with him a couple days ago, or to be precise, we are quite new to each other, I'd resolutely break up with him to pursue my true love. Given that it's only a new start that we haven't pour too much feelings into it, when it comes to breaking up, naturally, we won't suffer too much. What's more , wen can make it another new start with ourr true soul-mate accompanied. However, it doesn't apply to all cases, such as we have the so called marathon love, which means we are bound to get marry in certain future.
In all , it's not easy to make determination to break up with our boyfiend or husband ae well as give up loved one. It's a decision between the devil and deep sea. So think it twice before you make your choice, then stick to it never regret for it!
最后由 ^白鹭一仁^ 于 2008-09-18 12:53:47编辑 |
