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主题:【每日互动话题】卖身救母是可悲还是可怜? (第433期)

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卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?



    “有一名女孩想出卖自己的初夜权,换钱救其患病的妈妈!”日前,一名热心读者向记者反映,说网友在和他聊天时提到这个想法,希望记者能终止她这个想法。
    据记者了解,女孩家境清贫,父母离异,母亲患上了乳腺癌,在无计可施的情况下,女孩想到卖身救母。
    一名警员表示,即使女孩是出于自愿出卖初夜救母,这种行为也是不责任的行为,带来的后果是既败坏社会风气,也违背《治安管理处罚法》。不管出于什么目的,出售“初夜权”涉嫌卖淫,而购买“初夜权”的人涉嫌嫖娼,作为执法部门都会依法予以查处。
                                               
                                             

      摆在女孩面前的路是艰难的。她该怎么办?谁来帮帮这个可怜的女孩?卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?

                                

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楼主 Date: 2008-10-14 09:30:33
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卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?

I do not think that's right!
最后由 文俊521 于 2008-10-14 09:33:24编辑
沙发 Date: 2008-10-14 09:31:09
Frankly speaking, I think the girl chose the worst way to save her mother no matter woefully or piteous. I only have one sentence to say:
“Life is good, we should cherish ourselves, come on!!”
最后由 baby_xiu 于 2008-10-14 18:46:55编辑
板凳 Date: 2008-10-14 09:31:10
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?

There  are  many  grils   selling   themselves   for money  ,most  of   them  are  need  money  very much .
I  can  understand  them  but  I  can't  agree  them .
最后由 结网蜘蛛 于 2008-10-14 09:50:59编辑
4 Date: 2008-10-14 09:32:10
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?
5 Date: 2008-10-14 09:32:19
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous
6 Date: 2008-10-14 09:32:58
帖主对此回复很满意,所以奖励 15 积分给yjlyf
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?


寒 寒      I should say both.

First, let's talk about this issue from her and her familly. I believe this was just her own decision. In other words, maybe her mother don't know. So even her mother will be healed someday, when she knows that it's cost of her daughter's first night, I'm afraid she won't forgive her and must feel guilty. Plus, it's cancer. No one could be healed until now. So what if they run out of money again? Girl's just have one first night. Besides, what if it causes the girl to go to jail because of this?

首先, 我们先从她和她的家庭说起. 我觉得这肯定是女孩自己的决定. 也就是说她的妈妈可能都不知道. 所以即使某一天她妈妈的病得以治愈, 而当她知道这是用女儿的初夜换来的, 恐怕她也不会原谅她并会增加负罪感. 况且, 这是癌症. 迄今为止还没有人癌症能被治愈的. 那么当这些钱再次花完了怎么办? 女孩的初夜可就一次. 再说, 女孩若因此入狱又该怎么办?

Second, let's consider the society. In spite of how bad it will effect the society. The reason why she decided to do this is the pressure of money (we cannot live without it in this society) and the force of the urgent emotion to save her mother. We should encourage her filial piety. Meanwhile, we should not allow that kind of things. This's also the reason why we feel so pity on her. However, if we think about it on the other side, we'll find this is definitely not the only reason which leads her to make this decision. What if no body wants to buy girls' first nights? Just because this is impossible and there are indeed some people want to buy that, so she think she can solve the problem in this way. But if there are not these people in the society, there will be no first night to sell. Do you think so?

其次, 来考虑一下我们的社会. 先不管这类事件会对社会造成怎样坏的影响. 她之所以做出这样的决定完全是金钱(没有钱根本没法在这个社会上生存)还有她救母的急切心情所迫. 我们应该鼓励她这份孝心, 同时也不应允许那一类的事情发生. 这也是我们颇感同情的原因. 然而, 如果我们从另一个方面看这个问题的话, 就会发现其实这并不是使她做出这个决定的唯一原因. 如果没有人去买女孩的初夜呢? 而正因为不是这样的, 并且的确有那么一部分人去买, 所以她才想到用这种方式来解决问题. 而如果社会上没有这些人, 也就不会有她的"卖". 不是吗?
最后由 yjlyf 于 2008-10-14 15:05:38编辑
7 Date: 2008-10-14 09:33:22
If she has no idea to solve a problem in formal way, she will do anything to achieve it. No matter selling herself while that's a wrong way.

最后由 ClitorisQueen 于 2008-10-14 09:37:05编辑
8 Date: 2008-10-14 09:35:34
woefully and piteous
9 Date: 2008-10-14 09:43:01
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?
10 Date: 2008-10-14 09:45:39
帖主对此回复很满意,所以奖励 15 积分给小王贵
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?

流汗
It appears I have seen this story, the pity girl, missing herself in the tough life, one is her love for mother, the other is the ruthless legislation, how to choose?

Firstly, I don’t know what the girl’s thought, maybe she just wanted to save her mother, however, she could choose other ways to solve it. Ask for help to her relatives or friends, her separated father, I think in this situation he will help her, if all these don’t work, she must depend on herself to look for a job, perhaps low salary is useless, at least it’s legitimate, the most possible way is to seek help on the internet, now the net is more and more popular, the warmhearted people will give their hands to the helpless girl, with the powerful spread of net users, the hospital will also take close attention on this issue, and the things can be settled.

The girl’s idea is an extreme way, she looked down upon herself, as a girl, we should be self-respectful, whatever your goal is, you thought you could deal your body at random, you are wrong, your action is illegal, we often see there are a lot of beauty salons with beautiful girls, they are selling out themselves, I can’t understand them and hate that behavior, they’re carnal, I feel shame for our paisana, you are young and vigorous, you can do many other suitable jobs, why choose that awful work, where is your dignity? Thinking about your parents, what is their reaction if they know the truth, here I go out of the topic, but just express my opinion, I can’t bear the girl who sells herself, but the girl in our article she is different (I hope so), if she did that thing, she is same as those floozies. We really hope to help her go out of the trap.

Her mother, I think she should be told her daughter’s thought, we all know mother loves deeply her child, she won’t let her girl to do that, actually there are other ways to choose. By the way, breast cancer is an ever-increasing risk for women’s health, but most women are lack of awareness. We should pay attention to it and often do self-check or go to hospital.

The girl in our article today is filial, but her thought is not mature, let’s give her more advices to help her.
最后由 小王贵 于 2008-10-14 13:21:42编辑
11 Date: 2008-10-14 09:47:33
流汗 流汗 卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous

I don't think it is correct  way to solve  the problem.
She should ask help from media or some society organization.
12 Date: 2008-10-14 09:59:44
流汗 I think it is right as the girl have no chance ,no money mean her mother die, if selling herself ,she can give the money to save her mother,through the wrong way.
13 Date: 2008-10-14 10:01:41
It's too woefully !
14 Date: 2008-10-14 10:05:08
晕 晕 晕 晕 晕 晕 可憐的孩子
15 Date: 2008-10-14 10:05:09
IT IS woefully!!
16 Date: 2008-10-14 10:13:40
whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woeful or piteous
17 Date: 2008-10-14 10:18:04
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous ?
18 Date: 2008-10-14 10:22:22
lose her mind
19 Date: 2008-10-14 10:23:05
whether selling herself  to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous!
20 Date: 2008-10-14 10:24:56
卖身救母是可悲还是可怜?
Whether selling herself to save her mother's life is woefully or piteous?

I have  read this news before , in my heart , I  was  very sad for the girl 's behavior .Poverty  is not  a  fault ,I think.Why use this menial act to save her mother's life. If  her mother knew  the  act   she must be very heart struck. Why let your mother bear this large anguish? In my opinion , this girl should to save her mother's life by other ways.
以前我就看过这个新闻了,当时为女孩的行为感到悲哀。我认为贫穷并不是错误。为什么要用这种卑微的行为去救她母亲的生命。如果她的母亲知道了她的这个行为肯定会非常伤心。为什么让你的母亲承受这种痛苦?我认为,这个女孩应该使用别的方法去救她母亲的命。


最后由 dollydu 于 2008-10-14 19:44:11编辑
21 Date: 2008-10-14 10:29:28
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