主题：【每日互动话题】结束9年爱情长跑，女人的青春输得起吗？（第612期）

i got sofa,,, to me , the time is sofa, ha ha ...

Teng Liming and Wei Junjie split up with each other after nine years. It makes us recollect that how many “nine years” a woman has.

we have to admit everyone's bloom is valuable, not only the weman's. love should be afforded and maintained by each other, if somedays ,it come to break up. in view of the bloom, i think everyone is loser . as time past will never come back. But in the sight of traditionally and physiological, as opposed to the man, it cause more harm than man.the women is more worth to sympathized and protected .

So i'd like to remind us that  you should clearly know what is your real want when you willing to start your love, material ?physical ?or just for living from hand to mouth is enought, and so on?   after then, you should correct your mistake in love constantly. and change your decision accordingly to avoid big hurt. if you find out you are not match each, please  end the love relationship as soon as possible and without any hesitation, it will benefit to yourself. indeed,everyone's love won't going all plain sailing, it is always will have some friction, you should to accept the risk and result , and even it is bad or not.

I maintain that the gilrs start their love should base on come back down to earth, don't ask the high expectations, and add a little romantic, it will be perfect .

Hope erveryone cherish ererything  what is your owned !

最后由 VincentLee_DG 于 2009-07-01 14:27:14编辑

it is bad news,i like them very much

WE ALL SAY LOVE ONE DOES NOE MEAN TO HOLD HIM OR HER IN YOUR HANDS
YOU SHALL LET IT GO WHEN THERE IS NO SPARK BETWEEN YOU TWO
SO JUST LET IT BE, YOU CAN NOT FORCE OTHER TO LOVE OR BE FORCED

Though I know little about Teng and Wei, I consider that Love shouldn't be valued by time. The true love can withstand all the difficulties tested by time, money, gossip and others.
尽管对腾丽名和魏骏杰不太了解，但我认为爱情是不可以用时间去衡量的。真正的爱应该经得起时间、金钱、流言等的考验。

However, living in the world, we can hardly resist various seductions. The true love seems like fragile vase that is easy to fall into pieces no matter how exquisite it appears. So many what are called Gold boys and Jade girls finally end their stories after exchanging their oaths to love each other until the end of the time.
然而，生活在这个世界，我们几乎无法抵御各种诱惑。真爱似乎像易碎的花瓶般，虽然精美但很容易就会摔的粉碎。那么多所谓的金童玉女，虽有海誓山盟，最后还是各奔东西。

“We know each other by mistake and split up by understanding.” said by an actor many years ago after announcing their love was over. There’s nothing to be regretted to end their love after truly knowing each other. Therefore, 9 years seem too painful to bear, but it’s better to give herself another chance rather than remain vulnerable to the lies and deception.
曾经有个演员在宣布爱情失败后说：“我们因为误会而结合，因了解而分手。”如果能够了解了对方，那结束彼此间的感情就没什么好遗憾的。因此，9年似乎难以承受，但给自己另一个机会总归要比遭受谎言的欺骗要好得多。

It’s no big deal to waste 9 years or even more, please hold the belief that the life will shine its beauty if we are moving forward bravely.
浪费9年或者更多没什么可惜的，只要坚信勇敢的走下去，生命就会闪现出光芒。


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最后由 bonydog 于 2009-07-01 15:08:09编辑

Teng Liming and Wei Junjie split up with each other after nine years. It makes us recollect that how many “nine years” a woman has.

Every romance’s ending is poignant, we always feel pity for it, actually love is limited, two people come together for a long time, the love between them has gradually transfer into some kind of family ties, if one day there is no love, the relationship maybe over.

Currently part or divorce is common, no more fresh, even it happens every day in our life, I think we should treat it objectively, anyone has his right to pursue the love, regardless of age, position and region, stars are people, they can choose the life they think easy, we couldn’t pay much attention to them.

Nine years is a long time, I can’t image what will be my life after nine years, Teng and Wei said they part peaceably, they didn’t resent each other, probably split is relief for them, new life is good idea, the bygone were buried in their deep heart, it’s good for both, so we don’t feel pity for them, but wish them….



最后由 小王贵 于 2009-07-01 14:03:16编辑

so sad

I am thinking the song 《容易受伤的女人》. It seems that every sad love story hurt woman much more than man. It 's sure the heart-broken one is woman.
Ho, Ladies, why we be this?
最后由 Mecy 于 2009-07-01 10:36:06编辑

A good question. When two guys fall in love, nine year will be short.
I think if I fall in love with someone, I will be frank and sincere, no matter what will happened, I’ll smile to everyone. Life is short, in some sense, I can’t say nine years is worthless. In my view, this nine year can be full of happiness and also blue times. Cause they own, so they are fulfilled. Of course, when relationship ending with a coma, we just say good bye and good luck to each other.
Be happy during the days without me.
Be careful yourself during the days without me.
Just like the song goes.

i dont think so

女人的青春是短暂的～女人还能有多少个九年？
我只想说我们的心永远年轻就好

I don't even know them. who are they?

女人有几个九年？
我和男朋友已经认识五年了，现在他还在读大学，如果真的要在一起，也是两年后的事情
真怕再这样下去，我们的缘分也会尽

Don't disanimation， the happy will coming in farther day
最后由 caohollandgo 于 2009-07-01 15:07:54编辑

引用九楼：REALLY APPRECIATE: Be happy during the days without me.
Be careful yourself during the days without me.
Just like the song goes.

How many nine years a woman has?

life is short ,if the thing happen to me ,maybe i will very sad,but I will try my best to off the sad,and  simil to tomorrow!

It is fortunately that they split up with each other before they get married. or they have to divorce, this will be more sadness.
Too many peopele get married after marathon of love several years only because they are not courage to split up with each other,but not love still.

女人青春短暂？男人青春就不短暂了？？ 男人活的比女人短，所以男人更短暂。别总以为男人就永葆青春了，男女平等

我跟我男友六年也分手了,觉得不要马拉松,一二年可以就结,如果不结就应该多给自己点机会;现在的社会太浮躁了,没有谁能对爱情作担保,在现实面对,感情是那么的不堪一击;