主题：【每日互动话题】当代"白毛女"，就嫁黄世仁？（第696期）

当代"白毛女"，就嫁黄世仁？
Will the “White-hair Lady” in modern times marry “Huang Shiren”?

Seriously, I like that story, exactly, I quite agree with the “white-hair Lady” who do it like that. I mean that absolutely right which she refused marry with “Huang ShiRen”.

说真的，我很喜欢这个故事，准确的说，我非常同意白毛女的做法，我是说他拒绝黄世仁是完全的正确的。

There is Chinese old saying,” No fortune shall corrupt my soul, No poverty shall dampen my will, and No power shall suppress my pride”.  This words is very suitable for “white-hair Lady”, I mean there is no any words to describe her better than this sentence.

中国有句古话，“富贵不能淫，贫贱不能移，威武不能屈”。这句话非常适合白毛女，我意思是说没有哪句话比这句话更适合形容她。
As we know, during that time, as the reason of feudality, we can think about it ,it’s very difficult to refused person who are squeezer for him during that time.
我们都知道，在那个时期，由于封建制度的原因，我们可以想像下，对于她在那个时期拒绝一个恶霸是多么困难的。
In the modern time, most of girls want to marry with a rich person, especially the young beautiful girls. Actually, they really want to marry a man that they are real love . But this is a realistic and pierce society, so, sometimes ,something we haven’t to control it ! I mean we have to do that things which violate our mind.
在现在这个时代，大多数女孩都想嫁个有钱的人，尤其是年轻漂亮的女孩，事实上她们也想嫁给以个她们爱的人，但是这是一个现实而残酷的社会，所以有时候，有些事情，是我们不能左右的，我意思是说我们不得不做一些违背自己意愿的事情。
Because if we want to survived in the society ,we have to adapt to this society
.因为我们要生存在这个社会，我们不得不适应这个社会。
If we after get marry with a rich person, and get lots of money from him, then you working hard for your work, of course, that will be fine, yes, if we get much money ,we can do whatever we want, and it’s easy to strived and achieve our own goal. But something that isn’t easy as what I think. If we are become a rich man, may be we just going to enjoy rich life, and forget our own goal. Because we know, the wealth can sap our volition. So ,if you want to get money from him and then to strived. That is very difficult ,because, that need very strong volition, right?
如果我们嫁给一个有钱人后，并且得到很多钱，那么为你事业而奋斗，当然，这很好，是的，如果我们得到很多钱，我们可以做我们想做的任何事情，并且很容易的去奋斗而达到自己的目标。但是有些事情并不是我们想的那样简单，如果我们变为来了一个富人，也许我们只会享受富裕的生活，而忘了自己的奋斗目标，因为我们都知道，财富可以消磨一个人的意志。所以，如果我们想从富人那得到钱再去奋斗，是非常苦难你的，因为这需要很强的意志，不是吗？
Most of beautiful girls , cause they marry into rich family, at the beginning they have this kind of idea, but as this rich life, let them lost the volition of striving.
大多数女孩，因为加入豪门，开始都有这种想法，但是由于富贵的生活，让他们失去了斗志。
So, people always think these girls marry into rich family cause they want to enjoy the rich life. Yes ,just for money!
所以，人们总是认为女孩们嫁入豪门是因为他们想过上富贵的生活。是的，就是为了钱。
As we know, from ancient till now, most of great persons grow up in bad environment,Because, the trouble and difficulty enable people become adamancy. So people always said difficult period make great person.
我们都知道，从古至今，大多的伟人都是成长在困难的环境中，因为困难使人们更加坚强，人们总说困难时期造就英雄。
最后由 mitch0708 于 2009-11-04 15:15:05编辑

Will the “white hair-lady “in modern times marry “huang shiren”?
To be honest , I don’t want to talk about this topic , no matter my answer is “yes”or “no” , it can’t be right for everyone. Everybody has his own notion.  
说实话，我不想谈这个话题，因为不管我的答案是“对”还是“错”，都不可能让所有都同意。每个人都有他自己的想法。
xier is a country girl , she was born in a poor family . but she still lived happily , she didn’t want to change her life at all. Maybe she never didn’t thought that money can change her life. But now in this modern society no matter the city girls or country girls , they think money can change everything. Money is a key which can open the door all over the world .
喜儿是个乡下姑娘，出生在贫穷的家庭，但她仍过得很快乐，她并不想改变她的生活，或许她并不认为钱可以改变她的生活。但是现在在这个现代社会里，不管是乡下女孩还是城市女孩都认为钱可以改变一切，钱是一把可以打开世界上所有门的钥匙。
As we know , money is very important . many people prefer to marry money that without love , It seems that love is not important.  And a few people think love is more important than money. So which is more important money and love , I think it just depended on personal mind.
我们都知道，钱是很重要的，很多人都宁愿跟钱结婚，却没有爱情。似乎爱已经不重要了。但还有少数人却认为爱比钱重要。所以钱和爱，哪一个更重要，这仅仅决定于个人的观念。
I am boring  this topic , but I want to write down my thoutht.
最后由 杨柳花开 于 2009-11-04 17:36:45编辑

interesting topic

will the “white-hair lady”in modern times  marry Huang Shiren？
ah...what an  interesting topic it is today
I think everyone knows  clearly about  the role "white -hair lady "represent in the past ，it was  a poor image who was suffering with cruel oppression from landlord of Huang Shiren for years
how many miseries had she undergone？she was the representative character  of an underdog in the old and lagging society
the obevious impression "white-hair lady "left more for us is her misery in her lifetime ,and for the landlord of Huang,we really hated him very much in the pity for Xier
he was a typical image of brutal and cruel wealth and authority of the district
so on such a background of society ,nobody will agree Xier's marriage with Huang,for Xier,it is also an unacceptable and unbelieveable things
she escaped into the mountain to turn into white-hair lady ,the purpose of her action is to escape marriage with Huang,who even caused her dad's death
at that time ,she had no choice but escape ,maybe not only for her life ,but also for her own little dignity which she could keep for herself
maybe as the famous critic said Xier could plan for her beautiful future，if she agrees to marry Huang
but i still thought what she could change is only temporary，the hurt and regret will leave for her forever
as we know ，the reason why huang forced Xier to marry is only her good look attracted his attention
we can clearly know what kind of terrible life will become of Xier once Huang fed up with Xier，as a wealth and powerful men at that time，he could go out to search more charming beauties to satisfy his needs
Xier is the one among them，given her lower social status in the rank and society，maybe she was just one piece of grass among so many flowers，so can the happiness of life keep for her for a long time，the answer is quite obvious and negative
if Xier married Huang,not only her fate can't be changed ,life condition can't be improved ,what's worse ,but only she would lose her own little dignity as a underdog ,and what is waiting for her is the endless hurt and suffer
ah...it is realistic
for the white-hair lady in modern times ,i still don't think it is a good choice to marry Huang for necessity of life or a bright prospect of future
even though we knew it was hard to hunt for jobs for college students owing to the global  financial crisis or some reason else ,should we marry a wealth man who only attached importance on our beautiful looks ?
no matter how fierce the social competition is ,we can't give up our dignity
we can't sacrifice our valuable and precious love just for a temporary quiet and high quality life
the forture of our life should be created by ourselves ,we shouldn't rely too much on others ,it only will give us misunderstandings on the real definition of life
in the modern society ,we have to strive for a economic independence
nowadays a lot of girls are looking forward to marry wealthy men like Huang ,some of them is aimed at to change their terrible life ,some of them is for making their career smooth ，such as for a promotion ,some of them is for the wealth the rich men had，few of them is for mutual love
it seems with the speedy development of the society，people focus on struggling for materialistic entertainment more than spiritual improvement
love is one of commodity which can be sold at price，it is none a kind of intangible feelings of reflection of our bottom heart again
if the deal attracts them and sounds reasonable，they will make a deal ，just like a transaction
but can they really feel happy not lonely ，solitude and miserable in the rest of their marriage？
can really money means everything important in their life？can they buy all the things they want with it？
a happy marriage is based on the mutual love ，without love，it is just a miserable game，the person you are married is not for staying just a few days ，it is for keeping together for years
maybe some of them can say ，they can divorce once they fed up with each other ，fortunately，they can have a large amount of money，which can be a solid support for their new start of life
ah...how silly that kind of ideas sounds to me ，even though it really sounds attractive and confusion to someone
but can our love and marriage be sacrificed for only earning an  amount of money
but  as we know，in the realistic world，few people can succeed in their plans for their seeming beautiful future，they always failed in the tricks they want to play on their sharp-sighted and mean husband Huang，who always kept an eye on their fortune，they always acted the role of a miser who guard against their wealth
don't you see how mean they are，don't you see how slim your hope is ，don't you see the impossibility of your winning the fortune?
my dear friends ,pls be more clear-headed,don't be fooled by the superficies
never dream a fortune without sowing
love isn't a commodity we can sold
try to be responsible for your marriage ,not only means important for the person you love ,but also essential and crucial for the person who loves you



最后由 jessiesw 于 2009-11-04 10:41:24编辑

If I were she, I think I won't marry him. In that time, her behavour needs great courage. And there is no  reins between them.

With Chinese economy developing swift, the whole country opened up for foreigners, more and more culture communication between Chinese and western people, many people's minds have been infected by western culture, as long as they can own much money, they will feel very happy, more money means more happiness for them, they can lost self-esteem for money.

随着中国经济的飞速发展,整个国家的对外开放,中西方越来越多的文化交流,许多国人的思想已经严重的被外国人的思想所影响,只要他们能够拥有很多钱,他们就会感觉到快乐,越多钱意味着越多幸福,为了钱财他们可以丢掉自己的自尊.

As a chinese people, I am very depressing for this thing, marriage is the crystal of love, it requests both sides treat each other with loyalty, but now their intent is  just only pursuing money, so they deceive the other side, acutally, the one doesn't love the him at all, only love his money, meanwhile, the one cheat herself as well, she denigrates love.

作为一个中国人,我对这件事真的感到很失望,婚姻是爱情的结晶,它要求双方要忠诚的对待对方,但是现在她们的目的却仅仅是为了钱,因此她们欺骗了对方,实际上,她一点都不爱那个男的,爱的是他的钱,同时她也欺骗了她自己,玷污了爱情.

For happiness marrage, for longtime happiness, pls respect your another side, respect your emotion, money is not equal to happiness.

为了幸福的婚姻,为了永久的幸福,请尊重你的另一半,尊重你的感情,钱不等于幸福!
最后由 叶明洋 于 2009-11-04 12:59:18编辑

If you were " White-hair Lady" in modern times, will you marry "Huang Shiren"?
How interesting the topic is, it worths encouraging. Even though it was a very famous story happened in the old society, but we also can find a lot of examples in modern times.
"White-hair Lady" didn't marry  Huang Shiren  who is a richer but a particularly cruel person. As we know, "White-hair Lady' standed for the courage and diligent person, never surrender of inhibitions in the old days. It was so dark  without a ray of hope, thus some parts of people have to choose surrender, but still have some choose to fight against the evilly forces. To maintain their rights and the justice of society.
Nowadays, with the fierce competition in the society. Especially, in the economy depression all over the world, a lot of college students can't hunt a job for themselves. There is one word saying in college, graduation stands for the laid-off. So, we often plan for our work in college, we took part in a lot of social activities and experienced a lot from the real society, just want to gain working experiences for finding job easily after graduation. Even though we met a lot of troubles in the process of finding job or on working, but we know it is just a course, everything would be better after overcome by us. We obtained the experience from it, we enjoy the process, we hope to get a good result through our efforts. However, some one don't think so. They get married with the richer but a cruel person, it was called" Huang Shiren", they gained enough money through marriage, that is really a good result in their mind. They have the ability to make their dream come true. But don't you think it isn't meaningful for what you got from unpain. Even though you will strive for yourself after that process.
Society is going on all the time, but person's mind still stayed on their parochial mind. Don't always hope to get more without efforts, try to think whether you have paid for it.



最后由 5566123 于 2009-11-04 16:11:08编辑

The same story has different comprehension in different times. In old days, I think it is impossible for Xier marry Huangshiren.
同样的故事现在不同的年代已经有了不太大的理解。旧社会的喜儿，我认为是绝对不能嫁给黄世仁的。
Huangshiren was a bully, he occupied her field, and forced his father to death, he was a mortal enemy of her, how can she marry him? Moreover, xier had her lover, if she was really marry Huangshiren ,she would have been cursed by all .

黄世仁是个地主恶霸，他霸占了喜儿的田地，逼死了她的父亲，他是她不共戴天的仇人，如何能嫁给他？况且，喜儿那时候还有她自己的心上人呢，如果她真的嫁给黄了，那她才会被千夫所指，被人唾骂。

Each single girl wants to marry a man with lots of money, handsome ,and treating her very well. People often say it is better to have a good marriage than to learn well. Sometimes ,these words are right. To most of ladies, they want to have a life without worrying about food and clothing. If modern “Huangshiren” is single, may be he would be loved by lots of girls. In this materialism society , it is hard to distinguish which is right or wrong. each has her or his own choice, whether the result is sweet or a bitter pill ,they taste it by their own.
每个女孩都想嫁给一个有钱，帅气，并且对她又非常好的人。人们常说，学得好不如嫁的好，有时候这句话也没有错。对于大多数的女人来说，他们都想过着衣食无忧的生活。如果当代黄世仁是个单身的话，一对会被众多女孩所心仪。在物欲横流的社会，很难界定什么是错什么是对，每个人都有自己的选择，究竟结果是甜的还是一个苦果，也只有他们自己去体会了。

As far as I am concerned, kind-hearted and having a goal and pursuing are important to me ,he can be poor ,but he has to have an active mind, at any time ,of course he must love me, this is critical. I do not mind striving with him, After wind and rain, this experience is more precious to us ,it is not? I also want to say ,independence is important at any time ,everything can be change, it is not in our control.
就我而言，善良和有追求是最重要的，他可以穷，但是他必须时刻保持一颗活跃之心，当然，他必须爱我，这也是关键，我不介意和他一起奋斗，风雨过后，回忆起这些经历才会显得愈发珍贵，不是么？我还想说的是，任何时候人都需要独立，因为任何事情都会有个变数，这些不是我们能控制的。

最后由 Tinahappy 于 2009-11-04 11:26:05编辑

说真的,我对"白毛女"与"黄世仁"的故事了解不多.而我经常听到一些女性朋友说:她们会选择一个有车有房的人作为她们的男朋友或者老公.另一方面,有车有房的男士的确比那些没有的找女朋友或老婆更容易一些.这就是"白毛女"与"黄世仁"的故事在我们身边的一个射影现象.

Seriously,I know only a little about the story of “White-hair Lady” and “Huang Shiren”.And I often hear the female friends saying that they will choose their boyfriends or hansbands who have cars and houses.In the other hand,a man who has car and house,can find his girl or wife more easily that the one who doesn't have.This is the phenomenon around us which is the projective of the story of “White-hair Lady” and “Huang Shiren”.

我个人意见,爱情不是一桩交易或一盘生意.虽然爱情的存在是以金钱或其他物质作为存在的前提,但爱情当中最重要的还是真爱.这是无价的.可能有人会说我愚蠢幼稚.我还是希望真爱存在我们身边.

In my opinion,love is not the deal or businiess.Although the existence of love is depends on money or other matter,the most important thing among love is the true love.It's invaluable.Maybe someone will consider me puerility.I also hope that true love exist around us.
最后由 Timsion 于 2009-11-04 17:31:23编辑

It's not a good idea to marry with huang. May be I will kill him!

support

Wa   everyone is very quick reply  Amazing!!

A good topic!

morning  have a sunshine day .   hehe  it isreally a good topic.

As value of society changed,  importance of material life grew significant and current economical crisis, such phenomena is no longer uncommon. I guess that is way how humanity evolution  really is.

just interesting

No matter in that time or nowadays, I will marry Huang Shiren, "One should bide one's time and wait for the right opportunity to seek vengeance ."
Between a better life and a mess life, which will be your choise, and if you married Huang Shiren, you may have the chance to relieve poor man, so why not marry Huang Shiren?

, is this opinion new woman in daily?   Nobody knows.
But, one things, we can see woman is more and more important place in the occupation.
Woman has job, dream, aim and plan how to make the dream come ture.


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凡事都有前因后果。如果一个女大学生的家庭被某一个大款无所不用其极地羞辱勒索导致家破人亡，这个女大学生会嫁给这个大款吗？如果嫁给他，是不是自取其辱？当然，不了解大款的财产来源和狰狞面目，会有别的女大学生嫁给大款的钱财，其实心理嫁的不是大款。
all things changed due to different reasons。If  a female student‘s famaly was destroyed or broken up  by a richman who with very insulted ways，might she marry him  ？